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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    I'm not saying you'll get women just by chance - maybe a kiss each five years if you really leave it up to that. Or at least, that's so in my experience.

    What I am saying is that you can show certain sides of yourself that make women more attracted to you, and you happier with yourself.

    You see, part of learning PUA is learning that results come from yourself. Sure, some girls don't want you up front, are crazy or whatever. But when you do have a shot with a woman, either you get her or you screw up somewhere. And than it's your own fault, but that's fixable because you can influence yourself. It is fixable. But only if you put in the time, effort and balls to do so.

    Look, I'm not going to pursue this any further. It's up to you whether or not you want to change your results with women - and if you're ready for it you can ask for the help of anyone on this forum at any time.

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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    look dude, I found my first girlfriend at age 22, until that day I hadn't touched any girl as my girlfriend I just couldn't dream a girl become friend with me at all, yep. she was very ugly and clingy as well but since I was in the slump I stayed with her for a month or so but after that I started to get better and better girls as my inner/outer game improved and now I can hit on any girl I want, though I can live my life alone just as happy as I'm in a relationship.

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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    Man you sound like me 3 years ago. You gotta work on accepting yourself before you will get this part of your life handled. It took me a while to realize I had to work with what I was given. There's no magic pill you can take to get better with women. Do what I did. Fake it until you make it. Start with easy girls and move your way up the food chain. Trust me there's nothing better than getting that girl you have always wanted but thought you could never get. And most of all stop giving a shit what anyone thinks of you. It's not worth it. I live my life that way now and I have never been happier

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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "combmunity"

    Fake it til I make it? What am I faking, exactly? Confidence? That gets sniffed out every time. Cockiness? Can't pull that off. I've had easy girls before I started this, I'm not moving up after this long, something isn't right.
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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    What happened to the girl of your dreams? Is that playing havoc with your game? Take it from someone who knows, if this is an issue, learn from it! Take it from someone who knows, and didn't learn. I'm now doing what I should have done years ago. You are young, smart, and have a job, you're no dummy. Utilize the info in this forum, there are some very intelligent men here, and some very good information. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    I became a person I swore I'd never be. It's not affecting my game, as I've never had any.
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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    Well do tell. What kind of person have you become? I mean no disrespect, I am just curious. I'm here to learn, good or bad. My father once said something brilliant to me. For a man with very little education it was genius! He said "you can always learn from anyone, even the man you might not respect". Of course I was younger and scoffed at the idea that I could learn from someone whom I despised. But the more I thought about it he was right. I can work with a complete idiot and learn that is not the way I will do it, or that is not the way I will communicate with others. This changes my mind frame. It opens me to learning, which opens me to others! Ciao, FauxPas.

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    I've become an angry person, I took everything out on her. I have a hard time using ny mental and verbal filter, and I tried to voice my opinion and I came across as an ass hole.
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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    Sleeper, heed my heads up. You are young and have the whole world at your finger tips. Invest in yourself. LEARN everything you can here. Speak to a counselor to deal with internal anger. INVEST in yourself! You are young and can change. The payoff will be huge! Take it from someone who is just starting now at a number of years older than you. If your anger is like mine it's really internalized at yourself. I have just made a declaration no more negatives no more anger. The moment one of these enters my mind I let go. Sounds simple, but for me it isn't. But I can't live my life the way I've been. I need/want /shall live it positive and anger free. This from a self professed 'realist'. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    My anger is everywhere, internal, external, it doesn't matter. I wish I could afford a counselor, but they're too expensive nor can I afford to miss work. I haven't taken a sick day since 09, and that's because I was contagious. I'm ill, lonely, and to be honest a good person with overwhelming flaws. I don't have to drink to sleep anymore, but I was three months ago. I've done and said terrible things while drunk that I don't remember a thing of. I'm lazy, unmotivated, and a realist. I have a great personality, but I'm horrible with words so I inadvertently pods people off. I have zero social proof because of that.
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