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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    Quote Originally Posted by sleeper View Post
    What do you excel in? What skill have you worked hard at honing? Ever had a dream and had it taken? I'm good at two things, auto parts, and history. Everything else that I really wanted to do, I've done nothing but fail. I tried to play guitar, I tried drawing, I tried writing, playing football, joining the military,hell I got fired from cutting goddamn grass. The thing is, ive tried this and tried to practice every single time I went out for a little over and I've gotten the same result every goddamn time. I was a more social person, I was slightly more thin, I was a much more interesting person. With what result? farkin nothin. The guy that introduced me to this stuff, I haven't seen him even so much get a phone number. That's the result I see. I know reading won't make me dead lift 300 lbs, I know I have to start lower. Yet, unfarking my head isn't as clear to me. Don't you think I'd have figured that out by now, if I knew? This version of me that showed up 3 months ago sucks, i jate it, but I don't fathom, understand, or "get" how to fix it. Maybe I'm stupid, a lot of people think I am anyway. Everybody is quick to say "improve yourself" but when I ask how, the first thing I hear is "don't do it for others" so I don't see an answer. Since you've gotten this long post, I'm asking how can I make myself "stronger, smarter, or more social" when I try to go out, try to read?

    Suck it up buttercup, you need to keep working on yourself. Results are never immediate, and if you want excellence you have to put the work in day in, and day out.

    Even if you don't see results at first, don't get discouraged. It's all about persevering.

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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    I know its not immediate, did you not see my post about three years? Blind squirrel? I realize I have to work on myself. I realize I have to take fat ass in the fitness, I realize I have to be more confident, but a little improvement, even by chance has to be expected.
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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    Quote Originally Posted by sleeper View Post
    I know its not immediate, did you not see my post about three years? Blind squirrel? I realize I have to work on myself. I realize I have to take fat ass in the fitness, I realize I have to be more confident, but a little improvement, even by chance has to be expected.
    Sorry, all I see is a whole lotta whine, and cheese. Expecting improvements by blind chance, or luck is not a recipe for sucess.

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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    I never said it was. I'm saying I've read material, I've tried to apply it, and not a thing has happened. Cs v Us got me a little attention, but not so much as a phone number.
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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    Quote Originally Posted by sleeper View Post
    I never said it was. I'm saying I've read material, I've tried to apply it, and not a thing has happened. Cs v Us got me a little attention, but not so much as a phone number.
    No matter what people tell you, presentation still matters, even if it's just to make the final push.

    You need to lose the weight, and at least look decent. Of course there are some tricks that really can impress a girl and almost make her drop her panties, but then she sees appearances.

    Today I saw an old guy trying to pickup a HB8 next to me. He was old, bald, and fat, but his "mathematical" tricks really made her light up like a bulb. She even called him a genius, but he didn't get to close.

    Game will only take you so far I guess.

    P.S. I got to talking to this HB8, and she gave me her number.


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