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    Hey y'all I'm from Eastern NC, born and raised. I was introduced to the pu community about 3 years ago or so. I read the Venusian Artist Handbook online, The Game, and started Rules but put it down a little over a year ago when I met "the one that got away". I've been told I need some help with acceptance, rejection, and I have a morbid fear of opening sets. I'm here to just pick up what knowledge I can.

    I'm a 23 year old in a college town with a secure job, and living on my own, so I have a start.

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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    Went out tonight. Bombed. Story of my goddamn life. I'm getting tired of this bullshit. Fuck this, fuck these "women", fuck this shit.
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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    you should work on your inner game man, have you listened to Ultimate inner game program?

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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    Yeah, you definitely need to work on your inner game. Read up on these alpha male threads: link 1, link 2.

    Here's how I got over aa.

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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    The only way I seem to be able to get over my aa, is if I'm drinking. Unfortunately when I've been drinking and shot down, which happens a lot, I get mad and I want to be by myself. I get short and snappy with people other than the bartender. This is too much stuff, I can't do it.
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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    Look bro, with that attitude, you're never going to get where you want to be. I'm not saying you have to have PUA on your mind 24/7, or that you need to throw your life around or anything, but try out the information on this website. At least try. You can just do so easy-going. It doesn't matter if you fail a couple of times first. If you're practising, you will become better with women.

    Drinking doesn't make aa go away, but the Mindset you have does. Sometimes you drink and you just can't get yourself to do something crazy. That's because you're giving a fark. At other times, when you're drinking you don't give a fark and drinking gives you that last little push. The far majority of getting rid of AA is by practising talking to women. That way you'll be able to control it and approach at any time, too. Drinking for courage is just a waste of money and your game will only become worse by it.

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    A little success would be nice, this stuff hasn't worked for me. Granted I did take a year off, but I've tried. I've read and watched stuff, but this is all over my head. Even if I do talk to a girl, I ruin it, like I did last night with the second text I sent.
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    Not to mention, I don't see how my "game" can get any worse
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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    You see, this last comment is another indicator of what your Mindset is like. I highly advice you to read all material on the alpha male you can find, as well as that link I sent you. Right now you need to focus on one thing and one thing only: YOU. Don't think about picking up women or anything. Just focus on getting your sh1t straight. Women only want to be with men that are confident, happy and satisfied about themselves. And I think you'd like to be so, too. At this point you seem to be none of those three. You have to work on that. Reading material on the alpha male over and over again until you truly believe it, and then apply it goes a long way.

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    Default Re: New guy, but not new to the "community"

    I'm a results kind of guy. This long, no results. If I can't see something work, then its not working. I'm fairly smart, for somebody with no post high school education, but that's a little obvious. Yes, I've got things to work on, but you figure even by chance something can happen. Hell even a blind squirrel finds a nut. Either she's not interested, or I fuck it up.
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