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    Unhappy being random: trying to hard

    Hi guys. I'm new here. I would describe myself as a boring, shy type of guy. I feel like an old man in a young man's body. I use to be really outgoing but somehow forgot how to social with others ever since I isolated myself from everyone. I've been trying to meet up with new people lately. I always end up with someone who's talkative and random. I'm more of a listener than a talker..
    so we ended up having random conversations.
    she ask me if I was a ninja, I told her I was and just asked me if I think we have the same master... of course I reply with a no and change into a different subject.

    as you can see, I'm boring, simple, and totally not random at all.
    how could I have respond to her and make it more playful?

    Thanks guys. Looking forward to check this forum out.

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    Default Re: being random: trying to hard

    I'm sure you could morph what you call a boring, shy attitude and have people perceive it as humble and mysterious. I think it's important to cater the game to your style in a way, otherwise you'll be in danger of being a social robot. If this seems more like your style then I highly suggest studying body language and mindsets exclusively. If you decide to be more talkative then there's still plenty of good things here on this forum to look at.

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    Default Re: being random: trying to hard

    Hi nyck111,

    There is no doubt that being more outgoing will be hugely beneficial - not only with girls but in all areas of your life. Therefore, you must not resign yourself to feeling like an old man in a young man's body. You must put in an effort here.

    My suggestion would be to buy The Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss and do the daily missions. Force yourself to stretch your comfort zone. It is the best self-help book out there.

    All the best
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    Default Re: being random: trying to hard

    Thanks guys. I'll def check them out.


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