My Ex and I aren't together right now with no communication, but theres a possibility that we'll be back together since this same process has been happening over the years. We will break up then make up, back n forth back n forth. I love her to death but i feel its time to set free. Ever since i've been with her i feel i lost the game i had to get her. I get nervous & shaky around females, which wont allow me to approach. I need this feeling to go away, where do i start?