Hi my name is John Bentley and I need help starting out my pua experience. I am 21 years old and live in California I came here because I want some help. I didn't come here to just pickup random chicks but to improve my social life, to meet new people, to be able to feel comfortable going out on a daily basis.
So if you could help me start out, maybe give me an example on how you started out and how you became a pua specialist. These problems are from early childhood traumatic experiences Was a very painful childhood and Ive been slowly recovering from it.
-Social anxiety disorder
-Don't have prescripted materials
-Fear of rejection
-Not knowing what to say or how to say it
-Don't know how to open myself up
-Good at opening people up
-Willingness to keep going
My biggest weakness is my Social Anxiety Disorder and I tend to panic when in alot of social situations and freeze up and don't know what to say. I wish to rid myself of any anxiety when im meeting people.
The next is Storytelling and gesturing although I have been improving Im starting to think I should script out story's and gesturing in a mirror any suggesting here would be great.
For my strengths I am patient and persistent til I reach the goal I desire, I am good at listening picking up everything they give me and then using information about them to open up. I spend a lot of my time working on occult matters such as yoga, breathing techniques, meditations, spells and things of that nature.
If you have any advice id gladly appreciate it and I once heard "You must give in order to receive" So if anybody needs help spiritually, I would gladly help you out and show you many secrets about this world if you would wish
So in conclusion I am looking to work on my weaknesses, start going out on a regular basis to meet chicks, and make friends. If you have any advice at all I would greatly appreciate it thanks.