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    Default Newbie unable to fully close

    So I've only recently returned to the dating game after a 4 year relationship. I'm new to the whole PUA community but have had some success with how I used to be... But holy shit has picking up changed!

    I've had success with getting numbers, but after that I seem to fail. I have this one girl who for my town, I would rate a 9 or 10 (there's not a great deal of good looking women here!)

    I've managed to get so far as dinner from her (cooked by her, at her place) so she's comfortable around me. For dinner she cooked me;
    Slow cooked roast lamb with her home-made marinade
    Steamed Veges
    Home made potatoe bake

    And for desert, in front of me she cooked a home-made chocolate tart, from scratch.


    Yet despite all this effort to impress, any attempt at getting close to her seems to have her pull away...

    She knows that I like her, so I have no idea what I'm supposed to do in this situation. Part of me feels like I'm being friendzoned, but I don't know anyone who'd go to that sort of effort for a friend. I'm tempted to send her a message to tell her that I like her, I know she likes me and until she's willing to admit it, that she wont hear from me again... If I see her out (we have limited clubs here) I dont plan on acknowledging her and will be focusing on other targets.

    Of course, I'm open to advice before I go sending something like that, so, what have you guys got for me!

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    Default Re: Newbie unable to fully close

    Don't execute that plan. Instead wonder: 'She's attracted to me and is comfortable around me. So have I used enough Kino to declare my sexual interest?'

    If you don't know what Kino Escalation is yet, browse around the forums. In a nutshell, it's touching a woman in specific places at specific stages of the game.

    Also, have you kissed yet or anything?

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    Default Re: Newbie unable to fully close

    You owe her dinner. Invite her around for dinner asap with you cooking this time and be persistent. Girls often put up a barrier designed so that only someone with confidence or real feelings will push through and 'prove' themselves. Of course she may not like you and just loves cooking but generally girls are not going to go to that effort without reason. You have to make a definate physical move now. A text saying you like her is weak. You have to make it happen now by touching and kissing her and don't take no for an answer (unless it's really a 'no! Get off me!' or the window of opportunity will close.

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    Default Re: Newbie unable to fully close

    I have both bought her dinner and cooked for her. She did come around to mine for dinner... and loved it.

    She wont let me get close enough to kiss her without her pulling away, which makes it difficult... I just can't seem to close that damn gap without scaring her off.

    I'll look around at the Kino Escalation and see if I can find a way to incorporate it and get close enough to her to actually use it.

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    Default Re: Newbie unable to fully close

    Consider when you make a physical move - if you just plant a kiss on her or if your constantly thinking about it, it can seem forced so act naturally, get her chasing you by acting a bit distant and kiss her when she's going to be most receptive.

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    Default Re: Newbie unable to fully close

    She's bullshittin. Ever heard the expression "shit or get off the pot"?
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