So I've only recently returned to the dating game after a 4 year relationship. I'm new to the whole PUA community but have had some success with how I used to be... But holy shit has picking up changed!
I've had success with getting numbers, but after that I seem to fail. I have this one girl who for my town, I would rate a 9 or 10 (there's not a great deal of good looking women here!)
I've managed to get so far as dinner from her (cooked by her, at her place) so she's comfortable around me. For dinner she cooked me;
Slow cooked roast lamb with her home-made marinade
Home made potatoe bake
And for desert, in front of me she cooked a home-made chocolate tart, from scratch.
Yet despite all this effort to impress, any attempt at getting close to her seems to have her pull away...
She knows that I like her, so I have no idea what I'm supposed to do in this situation. Part of me feels like I'm being friendzoned, but I don't know anyone who'd go to that sort of effort for a friend. I'm tempted to send her a message to tell her that I like her, I know she likes me and until she's willing to admit it, that she wont hear from me again... If I see her out (we have limited clubs here) I dont plan on acknowledging her and will be focusing on other targets.
Of course, I'm open to advice before I go sending something like that, so, what have you guys got for me!