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    Default Hello I am a new to this site - my story

    Hi everyone.

    I am new to the forums. I have read some pick up books, like Mystery's Method, and I have obviously read The Game by Strauss.

    That was 3 years ago while I was in high school. Then I got frustrated that nothing has changed, and I started bashing pick up artists as weak needy men, all the while not having the dating profile that I so desperately want. I guess I was jeolous.

    Now I am 20 and I learned that I am still in the same boat. I am back on pick up and I need help. I hope you guys can help me.

    Oh and my name is Random.

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    Default Re: Hello I am a new

    You're doing one thing right already: being dead honest with yourself. That is a really important quality. If you like being that honest with other people (women) too, you could consider studying up on Direct Game. It's the opposite of the Mystery method from The Game which you studied before.

    Welcome to the forums!

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    Default Re: Hello I am a new to this site - my story

    I don't know if that would work for the girls that I want. Mostly, I want young college girls and they wouldn't be impressed with a direct statement like that.

    When I am a little older and more mature, I can see myself doing that.

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    Default Re: Hello I am a new to this site - my story

    Quote Originally Posted by randomdude123 View Post
    I don't know if that would work for the girls that I want. Mostly, I want young college girls and they wouldn't be impressed with a direct statement like that.

    When I am a little older and more mature, I can see myself doing that.
    I'm 22 and opened direct on 18-26 year olds. Some of them loved it, others were like 'ok. thanks'. I think that's something you'll keep with all ages. The ones that were like 'ok, thanks' were busy doing something else, like working, listening to music or texting, so I guess their minds just weren't in social mode.

    If anything, you could use it to boost your confidence and try to find out if the girls you're after like it. Though if you're after college girls on campuses I'd read up on a system on that such as conquer your campus.

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    Default Re: Hello I am a new to this site - my story

    what up bro I know what you are talking about, I mean me my self I readed every book that you can imagine, the game , BANG, DAY BANG,the rules of the game.....nothing worked, them I reliezed it was me...... i got scared of aproaching and nervous....so i started busting my ba..s to aproach every single girl that i find attractive even at the church i mean you got to see it this way you got nothing to loose, believe me what is the worst thing that can happend...the so called REJECTION, i call it EXPERIENCE. you know why.... because everytime that a girl rejects you LEARN from your mistakes. rejection is a GIFT, what I saying is donīt get fustrated you will overcome. thatīs the reason you are here bersides WHO DARES WINS.!

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    Default Re: Hello I am a new to this site - my story

    In your journey it is definitely worth checking out both direct and Indirect Game.

    Direct Game will always be high risk/high reward because you get to skip alot of the initial steps if you pull it off. To be successful depends alot on body language, style, hygiene, and tone of voice. It usually works better during day game, but still usuable at night game if you know the situation. This style is more about inner game and mindsets. Yes a lot of men use direct game, but not all of them are PUAs that understand that your body language is actually doing more of the talking than what is actually coming out of your mouth.

    Indirect (Mystery Method, etc.)game is great at night and still works very well in day game if done right. This will always be low risk, low reward. This is more for the Billy Fischers out there. It requires a bit more mental power, but can be very rewarding since it takes a bit more time, therefore a bit more natural. Since it will come across that you were just having a friendly convo with a woman and she eventually found herself attracted to you. Almost like fate.

    Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Hello I am a new to this site - my story

    Welcome to the forums!

    In the beginning you want to be an introvert ~ what I mean is adjusting YOURSELF from the inside-out. :]
    Success or fail; everything you try can be chalked up as a learning experience~


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