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    Default 4 liner that made her chase me

    I was at an awesome party, so many beautiful woman it was hard to know where to start. I noticed this blonde HB8 about 5"3, I watch for about 5 minutes and try to get an idea of what kind of girl she is.

    As she comes to our circle of guys and girls, I say playfully, "I only just met you but I hate you already"

    my friend Jared starts in with "come join us!"

    I immediately give him a sharp look and say, "don't tell her that! don't stand next to me, stand over there!" *point away from me with a lopsided grin* (I call this grin the Han Solo)

    She stands next to me naturally and I turn away completely and start talking to everyone.

    She tries to interrupt me asking me, "why do you hate me?"
    I just turn to her, shrug, and go back to talking.

    The whole time she is talking to people about me saying I hate her.

    30m later I sit down next to her on the coach and watch this guy freestyle next to the DJ who was hitting on her all night.

    She puts her hand on mine and says, "why do you hate me?"

    I take 3s to respond, look at her hand slowly, then look at her, and say... with a quirked eyebrow, "My mother warned me about girls like you, and you're kind of shifty..."

    She keeps trying to convince me to like her, says I should like her first and decide later if I hate her. Each attempt I just laugh it off and give her the Han Solo. say things like "that's cute," or "that's not how this works at all"

    She starts giving me puppy dog eyes, and I make a sympathetic face like I'm about to crack, hold out my hand for hers. She gives it, I say... "aww.. I'm sorry..." kiss her hand, "but I still hate you" and give her a slow wink and walk off.

    She's coming to my party on friday, I'm opening with... "oh god, not you again..."


    What do you all think of what I did, and what would you do next?

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    Default Re: 4 liner that made her chase me

    Nice one! This is similar to what I was talking about in another thread about making yourself 'unobtainable'. Works really well with good looking girls who are not used to the perceived lack of interest. Just make sure you don't do it too long or she really will hook up with someone else, especially at your party where you might get side tracked playing host.

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    Default Re: 4 liner that made her chase me

    It's good...you just have to plan on you're going to transition this to closing her. You will have to convince her that she's really winning you over with something she does. Pref something's she's really into or proud of about herself so she's like wow he's really seeing past the exterior me and likes me for me! (aka falling right into your trap lol)

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    Default Re: 4 liner that made her chase me

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Nice one! This is similar to what I was talking about in another thread about making yourself 'unobtainable'. Works really well with good looking girls who are not used to the perceived lack of interest. Just make sure you don't do it too long or she really will hook up with someone else, especially at your party where you might get side tracked playing host.
    Thanks! Yeah, I've really tried for the 'unobtainable' as I'm not always a life of the party kind of person. My friends do that, I prefer to sit back and act like I don't want it. I definitely won't let her let away.

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    Default Re: 4 liner that made her chase me

    Quote Originally Posted by chillout24 View Post
    It's good...you just have to plan on you're going to transition this to closing her. You will have to convince her that she's really winning you over with something she does. Pref something's she's really into or proud of about herself so she's like wow he's really seeing past the exterior me and likes me for me! (aka falling right into your trap lol)
    That sounds perfectly what I was considering. I don't want to let off too fast though right? I was thinking of teasing her with it, then letting her have bits of ioi at a time.

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    Default Re: 4 liner that made her chase me

    Status Update: Friend request over facebook, she accepts but doesn't reply to mesg or poke

    Me: ...you still haven't proved yourself...

    She didn't respond, I try again one day later....

    M: Just accept my friendship request and not reply to my message? I'm starting to think my instincts on you were right...

    H: And what exactly were your instincts again?!

    M: That I hate you. I'm budgeable, but it all depends...
    H: Lol you're budgable?
    M: Only slightly... Do you read?
    H: I know how to read...
    M: Rofl at least that's been checked off. I meant, Do you read recreationally? Brat!
    H: Lol I know. I usually dont. But I sometimes do if someone suggests one. Last full book I read was hunger games. I didn't really care for it.
    M: Tut tut tut, not doing well: what do you do for work?
    H: I just finished school. about to be on the hunt for something temporary until I get my nursing license. What do you do

    <Break> Here she tries to turn the tables and tries to screen me, I decide to just IGNORE the question. I've had girls do this to me when I was just an AFC (not that I'm not somewhat still one, but I'm learning), so I know how well it works...

    M: Going to be a nurse? That's awesome! You can support me! I'llbe the stay at home husband, and you bring home the bacon!
    H: Haha negative. I want to stay home and be a soccer mom.
    M: Well, it seems we are at an impasse... I want a devorce. You are not the woman I married! I'm taking our kids mike and jacqueta too!
    H: Oh lord. you can have them

    <Break> This is why I prefer to do this in person, couldn't tell her exact level of attraction, I decide to give her an IOI since I've been screening her so hard

    M: You know, you seem to have great energy

    H: I don't know if anyone has ever told me that before

    insert some Fluff here

    She doesn't reply after this, I've noticed Jacksonville girls treat messaging like a pause/resume conversation and just answer whenever. However I stick to a rule that I take AT LEAST as much time to respond as her. Ergo, creating a minor IOD in just timing, when I can't do it with body language.

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    Default Re: 4 liner that made her chase me

    Your opener was perfect for your situation and you carried it well. Kudos! And the rules you have about when to message her back are solid. I do have some opinions though so be ready lol.......

    I understand that she was screening you and how you reacted. However it didn't really seem like a shit test to me. She may have begun to be genuinely interested in you. At that point I feel it was a good chance to go to the next level of the interaction and get a more serious tone. This is the comfort and rapport building where the ballbusting calms down alot from the attraction phase.

    Going out of your way to friend request her, message her, and try to pick up where you left off by challenging her again was really risky. I'm not sure how much time passed, but there was a good chance that she got over your "back and forth" from the other night. She seems to also not be very receptive to the ballbusting like she was before. This is the part that sucks.........that all the work we put in gets squashed when a day or two goes by and we kind of have to start from scratch with her. Also it's online which there are slightly different rules than in person.

    You're attraction game was flawless and it's a great story. But I wouldn't want you to think that your "target" is your enemy and she's trying to fuck you over. Women want what we want, we just have to make them feel okay with it and lead them.

    I firmly believe you are still in good standings with her so when you message her back in a few days or a week or whenever, if it's online there are a few key things to keep in mind. Like try to make every message to her contain a few elements.

    -A fun vibe

    - Open ended thread

    -And/or create some intrigue

    -Ballbusting is light. It's hard to tell what is a joke and what is serious online. And sometimes women are just plain clueless as to which it is, so try to make it clear what you are conveying.

    Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: 4 liner that made her chase me

    I wouldn't play that to long at the next party. You definitely have her now. I would let her convince you she is worthy of your attention. Now she has a investment in you move to the next step. Have her do something for you simple at the party like bring a desert tray in or something similar.

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    Default Re: 4 liner that made her chase me

    I love this but I hate this. My friend, she gave you compliance out the wazoo. She was talking about you, trying to win your approval, brother...it was time for seduction. She was in your realm, playing your game by your rules. You may still yet close this but you may have squandered a tremendous opportunity.

    She was ready to be seduced, you could have taken this so much further. All in all though, I do love the approach and I may just steal it and try it out.

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    Default Re: 4 liner that made her chase me

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Your opener was perfect for your situation and you carried it well. Kudos! And the rules you have about when to message her back are solid. I do have some opinions though so be ready lol.......

    I understand that she was screening you and how you reacted. However it didn't really seem like a Sh1t Test to me. She may have begun to be genuinely interested in you. At that point I feel it was a good chance to go to the next level of the interaction and get a more serious tone. This is the comfort and rapport building where the ballbusting calms down alot from the attraction phase.

    Going out of your way to friend request her, message her, and try to pick up where you left off by challenging her again was really risky. I'm not sure how much time passed, but there was a good chance that she got over your "back and forth" from the other night. She seems to also not be very receptive to the ballbusting like she was before. This is the part that sucks.........that all the work we put in gets squashed when a day or two goes by and we kind of have to start from scratch with her. Also it's online which there are slightly different rules than in person.

    You're attraction game was flawless and it's a great story. But I wouldn't want you to think that your "target" is your enemy and she's trying to fark you over. Women want what we want, we just have to make them feel okay with it and lead them.

    I firmly believe you are still in good standings with her so when you message her back in a few days or a week or whenever, if it's online there are a few key things to keep in mind. Like try to make every message to her contain a few elements.

    -A fun vibe

    - Open ended thread

    -And/or create some intrigue

    -Ballbusting is light. It's hard to tell what is a joke and what is serious online. And sometimes women are just plain clueless as to which it is, so try to make it clear what you are conveying.

    Hope this helps and good luck.
    Thanks a bunch, unfortunately she didn't come because of a CB friend, however I will keep these things in mind. I didn't see it as a shit test, I was thinking more along the lines of insuring I was the one being "the selector." What do you feel about that?


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