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    Default Re: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking

    Man i tried these types of questions on an HB9 i work with and she was totally not into it. I had good rapport with her and she must have been comfortable with me (she once showed me a pic of her Fren-enemy's vagina cuz it looked weird! While we were at work!)

    I guess she is more into tmz or e!tv junk than actually thinking... or maybe she didnt like how i implied that the vagina picture was hers lol (no face in the pic).
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    Default Re: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking

    Thanks Batman, this is very useful! I'm new at the forum but I already got some good tips. I was wondering, what do I say when I ask her "Which emotion is stronger: Anger or Love?" And she responds with, "why do you ask" or "what weird question is that?". I could use some comebacks I guess..
    Anyone?

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    Default Re: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking

    Great post. Great questions to fall back to if the girl isn't being responsive.

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    Default Re: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking

    Heres a classic question i always ask.

    "So how do you spend most of your time"

    Its a sure shot guarantee she will say more than 1 word.

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    Default Re: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking

    Quote Originally Posted by Pann View Post
    ...what do I say when I ask her "Which emotion is stronger: Anger or Love?" And she responds with, "why do you ask" or "what weird question is that?"
    I find that when they ask this, u havent set it up properly. It needs to naturally happen... like it flows from previous topics. U must give a reason for asking or else u just look weird.

    Ex... bring up some story where a celeb did something out of anger. Ask if she saw/heard about it. Then say, ' some people get too caught up in their emotions sometimes. Its like they have no self control dont u think?' (she responds). 'I guess i can understand because anger (or love) is a pretty strong emotion. I read somewhere that even overides love in our brain. Im not sure though. What do u think?'

    Woman look for meanings behind things, so if u arent natural they will wonder the point of you asking the question. Then, they will focus on that instead of liking you lol.

    Another way to bring it up is simply saying, 'I dunno sometimes i think about topics that are weird (she will ask what topics). Well, i read somewhere online ... they were discussing which is stronger ... etc etc."

    As far as comebacks, just tell her u thought she was an intellectual... but obviously u were wrong haha
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    Default Re: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking

    Thanks a lot for these! will have to try them out tomorrow night, can't wait.

    One of my personal questions I usually get a good response to is "what sports do you play?"

    I think it shows a genuine interest in the girl also.
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    Default Re: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking

    That is a great one. I can see it being VERY effective.

    Especially since im a great volleyball player even tho im short lol. Usually they will assume im going to say football.

    Good stuff!
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    Default Re: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking

    Multi Threads seems good to hook the set ...

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    Default Re: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking

    I'm gonna have to write some of these down and work them into a conversation
    Last edited by Fp3052; 02-10-2013 at 11:36 PM. Reason: Correction

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    Default Re: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking

    Do you have any regrets in life?
    What is your happiest/saddest memory.
    If you could do it all over again, would you change anything?


    Most of those are good but these are not that great. They could cause negative emotions and you dont want that when your trying to pick up.


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