We've all talked to them. These women that seem to not invest in a conversation. The phrase "pulling teeth" usually comes to mind after you realize you are doing all the talking. The balance gets way out of wack and you are just not sure how to run your game with someone that isn't investing other than giving her a bunch of IOD's about her behavior which may or may not work.
Generally it's a good idea to ask questions to get her talking (investing). However the dangers are much higher for the "interview" trap and conveying too much interest on your part with a woman who isn't budging. So you want to avoid yes or no questions and ask more open ended. Easier said than done, apparently, to come up with some really thought provoking questions other than "What do you do for fun?"
After browsing a few sites I came across some of the more interesting questions I thought could be used with a woman that just isn't budging too much. My only suggestion is to try and spread these out and only use about 3-4 MAX!! It should be easy to branch off into your own threads after these questions. Also make sure to take the opportunity to tease her answers a little bit to get her to lighten up even more. Remember, being interested is interesting. Let me know what you guys think.
Do you have any regrets in life?
Which is a stronger emotion: anger or love?
Can insanity bring on more creativity?
What is your quirkiest habit and how long have you had it?
What is your happiest/saddest memory.
Why is it so hard to let go? To go with the flow and not be in control of everything.
At what point are we good enough? When are we self-improved enough to accept ourselves?
What impact are you wanting to leave on the world?
What are the three "nevers" of your life?
If they were president, what would you do?
What is your biggest best dream here and now?
If you had the opportunity to get message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?
When is it time to stop calculating and just do what you know is right?
Do you think crying is a sign of weakness or strength?
When was the last time you tried something new?
If you could do it all over again, would you change anything?
What is the difference between living and existing?
If you had to teach something, what would you teach?
Time or money?
If you were to be famous what would you like to be known for?
If you won the lottery what would you change about your life?