So I'm new on here and just thought I'd get your advice and try not to make it too long. I'm 33, good looking, I work out alot so I'm in good shape, kinda muscly. Most people don't even believe I'm 33 when I tell them, I guess I don't look or act my age...not that it really matters anyways. But based on the women I'm around (I'm currently getting my masters in a small college town and I bartend at a college bar) it might be relevant. I meet a lot of girls and don't have problems talking to them, unless they are super hot lol. (Maybe that's part of my problem) Anyway, I know chicks are interested, they even give me numbers once in a while without me asking. I notice looks, body language, ioi's and all that good stuff. Up until a couple months ago I had just stopped trying with chicks for like a year. Now I'm back and feel like a AFC. Before that I never had a problem hooking up with girls because I'd kinda just get drunk and let the animal in me take over. Instinct I guess. There are chicks who I know I could hook up with now, without a doubt, but once I know that I'm not really interested, plus they aren't what I'm really looking for (like 7's). So I guess to ask my question I'll give an example: As I mentioned I work at a bar with tons of hot chicks who come in but even better that work there. One i work with all the time is way younger but seems interested. I just don't know how to get from just flirting a sh1tload at work to bringing her home etc. And there are alot of other opportunities like this, most of whom have boyfriends but they don't really seem to care. I feel like a kid staring through the window of a candy store...everything is within reach I just can't find the door lol. I'd love to hear what you guys think. I'm also re-reading "The Game" just to get that mindset back.