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    easyZ is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default 18 year old channeling my inner-game

    Hey, I just graduated from high school and I'm going to University of Colorado next year, where I want my game to be really tight. I'm currently in a real bad case of oneitis(acted like total AFC), and since I was an exchange student my junior year, my game has really fallen off. I need to get my confidence back up and I'm really committed to becoming a good PUA, I just gotta get over this oneitis. I'm also really considering a bootcamp, but I don't know if that would be an option because I'm just 18 so I couldn't go to clubs or bars, does anybody have any recommendations? If you'd like to know more just ask. I'm really happy to be joining the community and am very excited to learn from all of you.

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    Default Re: 18 year old channeling my inner-game

    You gotta be comfortable with you. Make a work-out plan, get yourself some new clothes get your teeth whitened.. whatever it is to get you feeling good about yourself. Assess your goals so you know what to aim for and can be proud of them when you meet them. Myself I've been working on a lot of inner game and i think that's what the rest of your game feeds off. Check this out Inner Game Landmark . And search through the threads a lot of other guys have good information on inner game.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    easyZ is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: 18 year old channeling my inner-game

    Thanks yolo, I think more than anything i need to get back in the field. its been about a year since i've been going out and meeting girls, and she just used me like a playtex. this has just been a confidence killer after that long gap.

    Another question, seeing as how she's in my social circle, what steps can I take to totally get her out of my life, as I know seeing her and being around her will just further frustrate me.

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    Default Re: 18 year old channeling my inner-game

    Get a new social circle my man. I've been where you are and things are only gonna change if you make them change. Hang out with a new crowd, that doesn't mean block out your friends but surround yourself with people that make you happy not with a group that you're trying to avoid people in it. Catch my drift?
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: 18 year old channeling my inner-game

    Yea man and the more i think of it it won't really be a problem

    Today I signed up for a gym membership, and i'm focusing on self improvement, already feel better. to help make myself practice more and get past my sticking points i've decided to do the stylelife challenge. i'm startin to get my confidence back to where it was, and i think my natural game will come back once its back up there. I'll be sure to journal my experience with the challenge to the community!

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    Default Re: 18 year old channeling my inner-game

    Man you are 18 going to a huge campus, as a 21 year old, in college at a much smaller campus, I am sure that you will be ok finding women. If you are comfortable with yourself, & use just a few of the basic tips from the site you will have had a lot of sex before mid-terms, hell maybe even a girlfriend, if you want...just go to whatever is happening on campus, room parties, the dining area, anywhere...everybody wants to meet someone in college, ESPECIALLY NEW INCOMING FRESHMAN!!! When your talking be calm & confident

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    Default Re: 18 year old channeling my inner-game

    Thanks man, i'm sure i'll be good. When i was an exchange student in thailand my junior year i was a force to be reckoned with in the clubs, i just gotta get back to where i was. I never had problems approaching people, i'm just in need of a serious confidence boost. i think just putting myself around more women and talking to them again should do this for me.

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    Default Re: 18 year old channeling my inner-game

    Quote Originally Posted by easyZ View Post
    Thanks man, i'm sure i'll be good. When i was an exchange student in thailand my junior year i was a force to be reckoned with in the clubs, i just gotta get back to where i was. I never had problems approaching people, i'm just in need of a serious confidence boost. i think just putting myself around more women and talking to them again should do this for me.
    Hell yeah bro, make college the best experience possible, cause everyone else on that campus will...& talk to women of any kind, shape, or form, as long as they look good to you, the more you talk to even if you arent having sex with any of them, the more attention you attract from others...at that point women on campus throw themsleves at you because they are so curious...& like they say curiousity kills the cat

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    Default Re: 18 year old channeling my inner-game

    Yup Trwhite91 and Yolo007 have some good points... Most important start with yourself become comfortable with who you are, use yolo's advice to start. Then go out and just do it. Best place to start is by going to the mall, theres always females there and you can practice conversation and banter. Id say good conversational skills and banter are the foundation to solid game. Once your at a comfortable level hit social night scene with friends. Sounds like you have good game buried in the attic so I know you'll be just fine you just have to brush the cob webs off and start from scratch.

    Good luck bro.

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    Default Re: 18 year old channeling my inner-game

    Thanks a lot for the advice guys, solid starting point. do you have any good links for advice on getting over the itis? Its still really getting to me. First girl i ever started to fall for, went out on a few dates, she even made me meet her mom, and then on prom night i found out she was farking another dude. Furthermore, I know this other guy hangs out with heroin addicts and shit like that all the time. Its still getting to me really bad, all the time even though I've done well ignoring her for the past few weeks. She's still all i think about. its driving me crazy. A change of scenery will def help i think.


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