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    Gordo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    and looking to move on with my life. But I realized that all those skills I learned long ago are long gone. Also I've spiraled out of control for a bit and looking for some help creating a new & attractive lifestyle. That's what I'm here for.

    On another note I'm Gordo from Northern California and I'm currently in the thick of the Paul Janka method. I'm constantly tempted to post bits and pieces of my love life on Facebook but I'm sure that would only backfire by scaring off girls, alienating friends, and getting useless advice from AFCs.

    Looking forward to exchanging ideas with this community. SHAOW!

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    Default Re: Ended long term relationship..

    Well do you have any idea where you want to start? Do you know your sticking points?

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    Gordo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Ended long term relationship..

    Well I dunno if I mentioned it but I'm reading the Paul Janka method and I think that aside from finishing reading that I'd like to start up an attractive lifestyle on a very limited budget. Also motivation is a huge problem for me as well as having lapses of confidence at times. Any suggestions on where to start?

    Thanks for your interest Mr. Bandit

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    Default Re: Ended long term relationship..

    Ok first off, Mr. Bandit just sounds weird. I'm just Bandit. Thanks for the respect though.

    If your looking for a way to live a more attractive lifestyle on a budget, I'd suggest looking at askmen.com. One of my personal favorites, this site has articles on any subject you could ever need, whether it's fashion or sex&dating or fine living. It's definitely worth taking a look.

    For motivation, I'm sure you could find articles on here or on askmen or any number of Internet sites. But I'm gonna take a stab at answering that issue myself. First off, think about what's holding you back? What train of thought is keeping you inside watching tv when you could be out meeting people, making memories, and getting the most out of life. Because even though most people don't like to think about that. But this really is your only chance at this. Don't let mistakes or hardships discourage you. You'll have plenty of time to go over the Play by play when your old or dead. Right now, you've got to take action. Being indecisive is worse than being wrong. If your wrong you can fix it. If you're indecisive you can't get back your lost opportunities. So what the hell are you waiting for. Go out and be a legend.

    If confidence is your issue, then look no further. There are literally thousands of posts on this site about building confidence. Check out the newbie challenge (I think that's what it's called.) Or just search the word confidence on this site.

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    Gordo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Ended long term relationship..

    What holds me back is I don't feel attractive/man enough to go out and compete with the other alpha males. My friends (nerds mostly) build me up to be the alpha of the group since I'm not really a nerd I just stick with them cuz I suck at making new friends.

    I went out last night despite being pissed off about not having any money or food to eat. I went to a punk show/house party with my sister as her designated driver. I had a lot of fun and I feel like a made a small step in the right direction. I talked to a lot of girls but couldn't close any of them but I didn't really care. I tried a few seduction techniques and failed but I feel like I laid down some solid foundation for my confidence.

    Today I got back with my ex, but I'd still like make a change into a more attractive lifestyle so she can see that I'm not with her out of desperation, but because I love her. Thanks again, Bandit.

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    Default Re: Ended long term relationship..

    Any time Gordo. I hope your relationship works out a bit better this time. You should stick around and read some of the posts, there's a lot of articles and posts about building your self respect and giving yourself a more positive outlook. That's the first look to having a more attractive life.

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    Gordo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Ended long term relationship..

    Thanks a lot Bandit for pointing me in the right direction. Have a good one man.

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    Default Re: Ended long term relationship..

    Hey,

    I just happened across this thread, I hope things are working out with the girl. Depending on where in NorCal you live there are a ton of options for a better lifestyle.

    I grew up in NorCal (by that I mean REALLY north, not the Bay Area/Sac but I've been to both plenty of times as well) so if you want to, shoot me a message and I can make some suggestions based on where you are.

    That being said, if things don't work out with the Ex, also let me know, I travel a lot for work and end up running down I5 pretty often so I can wing for you if you find yourself in need.


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