hi BM i am new to this site, i read the book "The Game" and was so intrigued by the concepts of in the book. i am 26 Hispanic male, i like to think i am a good looking guy and females tend eye fuck me from time to time. now that i am not married i can take advantage.
So while in the process of reading the book, i read of concepts that were being put into practice. then it hit me, i do these things naturally. for example, i tend to turn my back to the girl i am interested in, then i would would throw a cute insult her way. i learned that this is a neg. another example the Peacock theory, i do not do it by wearing pink cowboy hats or leather pants. i do it by wearing red nike shoes or yellow, pink shirt. i get got feedback, girls would say nice shoes or shirt.
so why am i hear? i am here bc i have lost my swagg. i was married for 6 years. now i am kinda scared of talking to females. for example today i was at the library i saw a beautiful girl, i go up to her and say love the shoes, she then gives me a smile and says thank you. i could have kept going but i got a mental block and didnt know what to say. i was thinking open up with the maury povich line. then i realized that it was so corny kind of wired to use it. so this is what i want to learn and maybe yall can help.
how do i get natural openers
how do i respond to the "i have a Bf" line
how do i keep her attention naturally not with magic or "sister test"
also while reading the book i read of a PUA, forgot the name, use pick up psychology. he tells a waitress close ur eyes, then he says imagine when u were last happy, then he says imagine this into a color she dose, then he says put this into a pea and hand it over. she ended being turn on every time he touch her . what was this ??
please i need help.