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    AmatuerDicarloGuy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How do I break up? When it goes too well too fast

    Hey there guys! I've been studying this pandoras box stuff for awhile and I've been really getting a hang of it. However, it almost works too well! I found myself agreeing to being in a relationship that I didn't really want. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this girl, I just sorta impulsively said "yes" ....she's really attached even though its only been ONE week. I don't want to hurt her or traumatize her in anyway...what now?

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    Default Re: How do I break up? When it goes too well too fast

    Unfortunately there really is no way around it. Her feelings will be hurt regardless. There was a recent post that was a similar situation. Maybe it can help. You can check it out here

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    Default Re: How do I break up? When it goes too well too fast

    Best thing is to be honest. If she's having a good time and falling for you, that is great and you just keep enjoying yoyrself too. If she starts talking about soulmates and marriage and stuff then you just need to be completely honest with her 'oh I wasn't looking at anything long term - we've only just met!'. Be honest and say you like her bit aren't sure the dynamic is right for a long term relationship. You will only hurt her a little if you do it early before she develops a genuine connection and if you're confident and honest in your intent she will likely either accept the relationship is more casual and stay with you or she will part ways with you but stay on good terms - which is handy if you are both lonely and looking for a hookup further down the track. I've never had a girl break up with me since I was 14. It pays to get skilled at breaking up as you often can get an abundance of no strings attached sex.

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    Default Re: How do I break up? When it goes too well too fast

    Thanks a lot guys for answering with some really helpful stuff in a timely matter..also holy hell the BatMan just gave me dating advice

    There's some other things I feel I should mention, I am only the second guy she has ever had sex with. I don't want her to think that I "hit it and quit it", its not like that at all! She's really sweet and being honest with her is exactly what I intend to do. I have this idea of being with her just a few more weeks but completely removing any kind of 'sexual' activity from our time together...that way maybe she starts to think of me less as a lover and I have no idea


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