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    Default 25 Year Old College Graduate Looking to Start Practicing

    My name is Andrew. I am intelligent and relatively accomplished (graduated from a world-class university), pretty funny, and even slightly above average in the looks department, but I have always been pretty bad with woman.

    I have finally come to understand that picking up girls is its own set of skills that needs to be practiced, and I am eager to learn. I have been reading a bit of David Deangelo and GirlsChase.com, but I want to start practicing in the real world. I realized that one of my biggest problems is that I'm just not meeting enough women.

    Part of the problem is though, that I've always been pretty timid, and approaching women cold and by myself would not exactly be a babystep for me. What would be a good way to bridge that gap, and how could I find other men who might be able to guide/support/coach me?

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    Default Re: 25 Year Old College Graduate Looking to Start Practicing

    Welcome and we will be happy to give our opinions. There's a nice little exercise you can try throughout your day. Just simply smile and say "Hi" to everyone. Man, woman, young, old. It puts you into "social mode" and is non-invasive.

    Also I would suggest building your social network first before trying to pickup women. It tends to make it easier because you practice being social and you also can get warm approaches instead of cold. Especially if you make GENUINE female friends. Not the kind that you try to sleep with later. They can make great wingmen. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: 25 Year Old College Graduate Looking to Start Practicing

    Thanks for that insight. My social network for my first year out of college was pretty much all male. My social networks thereafter have either had only a few women (who were either married or engaged) or everyone was about two decades older (working at a school).

    I recently started a YMCA summer camp job (as part of my career goal to become a teacher), and there are a lot of attractive young women working there, a few of which I've already started talking to. There's one girl who I actually spend about 30 minutes every day pretty much alone with, although I think I'm feeling the friend zone on that one. There's another girl who I think may even be interested and I want to make some attempt, but we don't always necessarily get to talk to each other as part of our work days.

    Any recommendations about how I can or should practice in this environment?

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    Default Re: 25 Year Old College Graduate Looking to Start Practicing

    Just keep a fun and enthusiatic vibe about yourself with occasional flirting. I would come from the Mindset that ALL the women are attracted to you already, but that YOU are not sure about THEM. You never want to verbalize this since it is only a mindset that is suppose to help with your behavior towards them.

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    Default Re: 25 Year Old College Graduate Looking to Start Practicing

    Okay.

    I was wondering what kind of other social things I should do to try practicing if picking up girls is a bit too advanced at the moment. I found two speed dating events in my area and signed up for both of them (though waitlisted on one), but they don't actually seem to happen that often. Is there anything else I could look out for?


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