So I'm a girl- some other site told me to come here I guess. Makes sense- the artists here I'm assuming are guys that just know what they want.
A few details: been in a relationship a little over a year, with a great guy- we met in our home town. he is about 3 hours drive away from it now for work- I'm about 10 hours away for school. We skype, call, and try to see each other for about a week every month (sometimes two months)- things are almost perfect. When we met he just graduated and didn't have a full time job- so when I came home he seemed to pounce on me for -sex (erm I hope this isn't too adult content-y)-
He's very energetic- he worked as a waiter, played soccer and cricket at very high levels- he still had this amazing drive for me. He's now had a full time job for about 6 months and ever since then he's stop playfully flirting with me, when we see each other over a whole week we only have sex once, and even then he no longer gets off- just me. Mind you he still tells me I'm beautiful, makes me breakfast- treats me like a princess. He says the distance is tiring him of lust (it's having the opposite effect on me.
I want to know what can I do to bring it back when I visit- I cook, clean, do his laundry, give him massages and all that hoping to give him time and get him relaxed after work, keep myself fit, new lingerie/ perfume/ waxed!Pouring over Askmen! tried everything I can think of but he never initiates-
So I want to know the things girls have done to just make you muster up some energy and have fun, even when you were really tired!
P.S. I only want to try things in a relationship with him- but I'm afraid he's done and seen so much already not much has an effect on him.