Alright I will admit it, I am an AFC. I feel like Neil Strauss in the book "The Game" when he first started. I have taken suggestions from the book and put them to use, but it still doesn't work. So now I am here willing to learn and take criticism to figure out exactly what I am missing in order to get the hot women. While I don't have nickname for myself most people call me Kev. I don't want to really discuss my past but a few things have stopped me and I am still working on breaking down those barriers and maybe you guys can help with this or now where I am coming from. My father was very strict never could please constantly talked down to me, my first relationship was the same way she was abusive and cheated on me with my best friend, was never a jock in High school, never really had self confidence till I joined the military. Alright somethings I have changed about myself dyed my hair cause it was turning grey, started working out, but my beer belly is not going away anytime soon, bought clothes and shoes that fit and every bit fashionable. I have changed my personality to be more outgoing and talkative when I am laying at my pool working on my tan, but clubs bars I still have the hardest time just walking up to women and dancing with them or just having a conversation with them and that is part I need to achieve.