I'm new to PUA Forums and this is my first post. I've been going thru some of the stuff on here and it looks like there's some really knowledgeable people around!
Anyways, this is kind of a semi-introduction/semi-desperate-cry-for-help
So I just turned 18 and am in the Hague (NL) for the summer. I have been told by many people that I look younger than 18 (16/17 some people even think 15!) and I *always* get asked for my ID when trying to get into clubs.
I have been out only 3 times (always by myself) and my only success was managing to get a drunk chick (8) to stick around with me whilst we hopelessly wandered around trying to find a dance club (did get a picture though!).
Basically, there's three main problems:
1. Most people speak dutch as their main language (though they often speak a little english)
2. I look pretty young
3. I don't know how to approach anyone in order to gain social proof.
The clubs that I go to are generally too-loud-to-talk, and I generally end up wandering around, looking as if I have a purpose, and maybe end up randomly dancing for 10 minutes and feeling awkward because I'm dancing alone amidst all these group circles of older-looking people.
I've read Ryan DRH's club game and it kind of sucked.. all I really learnt was to look like your enjoying it, which I try to do but generally, I'm not really
Thanks for reading this, any advice?