Re: 99 Problems - oh actually, no, make that 100 Problems....
I agree with PUAatmosphere. You need to get over this girl. It's going to be hard but, its just something your going to have to tough out. I think you need to realize that she is not as great as you think she is.
Also, she's married- with a kid. Do you really want to be the guy who drives a wedge in between their family? Come on, PUA versus Player.
Good luck with the other stuff, buddy.
"It ain't about how hard you can hit. It's about how hard you can be hit and keep moving forward"