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    Hello! I'm Jacobite, 18 years old living in the South West of the UK. Just an introduction really; I've just discovered this community through reading The Game and it's opened up a whole new world. I guess I'm not a typical AFC, I've always been quite successful with women, (yes I am 18 but you know what I mean) and I seem to have a reputation in my area as a bit of a lothario. Although I can hold great conversation with girls and 7/10 times I will normally pull, I want it to be 10/10, and with 10s! My biggest flaw seems to be my confidence. Don't get me wrong I'm a confident person and always have been but when it comes to closing, I just can't do it, it's the fear of rejection. This happens even when I know the girl is interested, for example after showing a number of IOIs. So I've just signed up the forum and this post is the first thing I've done so I'm just keen to be a part of the fam! Also, I'm sure it's been discussed somewhere but I really want to learn NLP techniques, I love all that shit. I shall investigate, thank you all.

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    Default Re: Jacobite

    Welcome to the Forum, Jacobite.

    It sounds like you are much further along than I was at 18 years old. NLP is great for getting past cultural programming and changing your belief about rejection. It seems like you are doing well with approaching, opening and transition before you freeze up on the close.

    One of my mentor gave me an assignment that I will pass along to you: Go out and get rejected by three girls in the next seven days.

    I'm such a competitive person that I had to prove that I could do it. It was so liberating to go into a set with the express desire of asking for a number and getting turned down. Now I'm not so worried about my "strike ratio" because I realize that I'll just open another set and try to close them instead.

    A friend of mine introduced me to a random girl at the bar with this line: "My buddy need to be rejected by three girls in the next seven days for a university assignment. Could you help him out?" She played along. I asked her name, where she was from and then asked for her phone number. She gave me a bogus 555-1234 number, and we all laughed.


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