Hi, I'm the_dude from Columbus Ohio. I'm a normal college guy, and recently I've decided to make a change, that is, to make my dating and sex life more fulfilling. I have confidence with women for the most part, the hardest part for me is the approach. Normally, I let friends introduce me to women that they are friends with, or get to know them slowly through classes (i.e. see a girl in a class and chat with her before or after class) then ask them out, but I want to able to approach women in bars and clubs witch confidence. I know having the expectation of landing a girl every night I go out is unrealistic, but I just want the confidence to try--that and I really enjoying flirting. Plus, even if they just like me as a friend, that doesn't mean she can't introduce me to her friends and let them know that I'm a good, worthwhile guy that has a lot to offer.