Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 7 of 7
Like Tree1Likes
  • 1 Post By tiger_cd

Thread: AFC new to the PUA community

  1. #1
    tiger_cd is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 60, Level: 1
    Level completed: 20%, Points required for next Level: 40
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    1
    Points
    60
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Smile AFC new to the PUA community

    Hello everyone,

    I am relatively new to the PUA community, I discovered it through a friend who recommended I read "The Game" by Neil Strauss and also suggested signing up to this website.

    In the past I have had various relationships with women, however, I have always "settled" for unattractive and overweight girls as I thought this is all I deserved. I now believe I deserve to sleep with women I find attractive and these women should want to sleep with me too.

    I am currently 23 years old and used to drink a lot when I was younger, I have now been sober for 18 months and have found it a challenge talking to people sober as I lack confidence. Alcohol provided me with a lot of confidence but also made me act like an idiot!

    I have been making a massive effort to improve my confidence and many people have congratulated me on my progress. I hope that the ideas and support the PUA community has to offer will be a final ingredient and push in the right direction to enable me to be successful with attractive women.

  2. #2
    The Red Baron's Avatar
    The Red Baron is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 16,918, Level: 83
    Level completed: 14%, Points required for next Level: 432
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Oct 2011
    Location
    Minneapolis
    Posts
    995
    Points
    16,918
    Level
    83
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    732

    Default Re: AFC new to the PUA community

    Welcome to the community. Just practice, it becomes easier, soon you'll have no trouble talking to girls without the drink
    And congrats on staying sober I know many people who have battled that, keep it up
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



  3. #3
    DeviantMethod's Avatar
    DeviantMethod is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 900, Level: 15
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 100
    Overall activity: 35.0%
    Achievements:
    Social7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    133
    Points
    900
    Level
    15
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    44

    Default Re: AFC new to the PUA community

    Heres how i see it.. The community is great for providing info on how to do things with women or telling us what to say to them. The most knowledge i've gotten was from the PUA's who tell you why somethings works so well. for example,,, looking someone in the eye to establish a attraction,lightly touching the whole date, before just going for a kiss. i've even read a item from bobby rio to make small talk sexy, and it tells why these things work, and why you want to do them. Basically I been learning the psychology behind Pick up. There are much more jewels hidden in that than memorizing a few lines. If you want to get better with women that what you should do.
    NowYourFucked.tumblr .com/
    READ MY BLOG (farked is the 4 letter curse word)
    put it in correctly and follow me.

  4. #4
    Thespian's Avatar
    Thespian is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 142, Level: 2
    Level completed: 84%, Points required for next Level: 8
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Uk
    Posts
    23
    Points
    142
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    11

    Default Re: AFC new to the PUA community

    Tiger CD,

    I've known you for a year now and your confidence has just grown in that time. You're a good mate and I think this is gonna be one awesome year. Plus looking forward to sarging with you sometime.

    Respect.

    Thespian

  5. #5
    Conquistador82's Avatar
    Conquistador82 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 942, Level: 17
    Level completed: 43%, Points required for next Level: 58
    Overall activity: 9.1%
    Achievements:
    500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    182
    Points
    942
    Level
    17
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    52

    Default Re: AFC new to the PUA community

    Drinking alcohol is never the best option to get confidence. It is like trying to get muscular by using steroids, you are cheating yourself! Just go out as Mystery recommends, four times a week, for four hours each time. Eventually you become desensitized to beautiful women...just keep approaching sets and you will learn to handle your anxiety, event though you will never get completely rid of it: no one is!

  6. #6
    Torrent_K is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 125, Level: 2
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 25
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    19
    Points
    125
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: AFC new to the PUA community

    Hello, I am also new to the community. You remind me of myself, using alcohol and other substances to get confidence. I have to learn to be confident with women sober as well.

  7. #7
    Conquistador82's Avatar
    Conquistador82 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 942, Level: 17
    Level completed: 43%, Points required for next Level: 58
    Overall activity: 9.1%
    Achievements:
    500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    182
    Points
    942
    Level
    17
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    52

    Default Re: AFC new to the PUA community

    I try to avoid gaming drink girls, later on they don't event remember you. I like when a girl feels attraction to me because of my game and not alcohol. Although guys without game use alcohol on girls to get lucky!


Similar Threads

  1. Hi everybody, new to the community
    By Pua Scientist in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 06-06-2013, 01:17 PM
  2. New to the Community
    By Natural1984 in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 01-20-2012, 08:06 PM
  3. Evolution of the Community
    By Wildcat78 in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 12-23-2011, 01:19 PM
  4. success since joining the PUA community
    By Achilles88 in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 02-26-2011, 12:04 PM
  5. My introduction into the community....
    By TimJ in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 01-31-2010, 12:16 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com