A Reflection in the game from 2004 to now.....
I'm tall and have red hair hence my pua name Red Man. I love meeting new people and love networking. I used to run the Connecticut Lair and am the leader of the Socialites of Connecticut, South Florida, and The Socialites of Hollywood on meetup.com.
The reason I got into becoming a pick up artist is because I never had a problem getting girls it's just after being in so many relationships I got fed up with not getting the kind of girls I wanted. They seemed awesome but once I got to know them more and more they were whack and one of them was my best girlfriend for years until I took myself out of the friends zone and was in a relationship with her. I ended it because things got ugly and she got crazy lol!
I started out in the game way back at the end of 2004. After being in a serious relationship for three years I was cheated on and completely screwed over. I spent a good 6 months to a year being severely depressed because of this. One night at work I googled how to seduce women and came across Jesse Charger's aka Derek Vitalio's Seduction Science which brought me into this. I used his stuff and started getting good results and ultimately found out there was a huge secret society of pickup artists which led me to find out about Mystery and Ross Jeffries.
Of course I read The Game after coming back from a deployment in Afghanistan for a year and a half. I also found the tv show and it had me hooked. I was hooked with Seduction Science and now this stuff sucked me even deeper into the community. I told myself I have to meet this guy Mystery. I had a lot of Approach Anxiety even though I never had a problem during school getting girls up until my 20's. Cold approaching was another story where the girls I met were always through friends or work. Been in the game for 7 years now. I've taken breaks here and there plus was deployed twice.
With a burning desire and obsession to master social dynamics I have taken bootcamps with both Mystery and Speer. Also attended the 2011 PUA World Summit and got to meet a lot of very cool people. I go to college, and am in the military. Did two combat tours as a machine gunner in Afghanistan. I look forward to meeting all you guys soon and getting to know all of you. We are all in this game together let's share our experiences and help each other.
I'm giving this my blood, sweat, and tears. I'm going to do whatever it takes and I mean whatever it takes to get insanely good at this. I hope all of you will join me. Enjoy my field/lay reports and sarge on guys!