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    Default Why does she get hostile?

    I've observed this several times in my life: A woman will go from lack of interest to more or less active hostility for no apparent reason. Anybody been through this and/or have any comprehension of what's happened? I may elaborate tomorrow but just wanted to post this for now and see if anybody had something useful for me.

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    Default Re: Why does she get hostile?

    Actually, i've seen girls very interested, and then when I don't make any moves for a long time they get hostile towards me, as if I had done something wrong.

    Maybe someone can shed some light on this subject.

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    Default Re: Why does she get hostile?

    Women love when men chase them; they love attention. If a guy doesnt chase they get 'hostile' because they are drunk on the attention or the chase.

    Some men would use that to their advantage.

    You ever wonder why so many women get dress and go out every weekend and stay at the bar, the dance floor or in the corner by themselves ? Some just want some kind of reassurance that they still got it/have it.
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    Default Re: Why does she get hostile?

    ^ That's messed up! but true. Women can be confusing creatures, hence the need for this forum.

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    Default Re: Why does she get hostile?

    I was married to a woman like that for 10 years....
    And even with as much as I've learned about women, & actually understand MUCH more than I did, there are still some things that are totally beyond comprehension!

    The best way to handle situations like that is to try changing her state.
    Meaning: distract her from her negativity & get her thinking about other things that are more fun & silly, which in turn will affect her mood & get her to lose the b1tchy act.

    Not always easy... especially with some girls.
    BUT, there are some girls that you're better off avoiding.


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    Default Re: Why does she get hostile?

    Some interesting comments but not exactly what I'VE experienced. I'm talking more about the ones who seem to decide they can't stand me BECAUSE I'm interested. Sometimes it seems they're okay with friendship but a hint of more and that's all she wrote. I've been trying to think of the specific situations but I've run into this in one form or another several times. Point here is that things seem okay for a while and then BOOM! All over. I DO remember one who practically threw a fit the first time I called her but that's an unusual case.

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    Default Re: Why does she get hostile?

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Actually, i've seen girls very interested, and then when I don't make any moves for a long time they get hostile towards me, as if I had done something wrong.
    Haha, glad to see I'm not the only one, one of my worst enemies is a girl I hit on a couple of years ago, but was too beta to dare do the last step... After that she litterally hated my guts and lashed out at every occasion

    As for the OP, this might be hard to hear, but... you might be creepy. I was like that in high school, you tend to REALLY check out girls, and not realize how obvious you look, and they seriously hate that stuff

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    Default Re: Why does she get hostile?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Haha, glad to see I'm not the only one, one of my worst enemies is a girl I hit on a couple of years ago, but was too beta to dare do the last step... After that she litterally hated my guts and lashed out at every occasion

    As for the OP, this might be hard to hear, but... you might be creepy. I was like that in high school, you tend to REALLY check out girls, and not realize how obvious you look, and they seriously hate that stuff
    I've thought of that, which is why I brought up the topic. I'd like to hear from some other guys. I have a few ideas,though,that might explain how I could have seemed creepy. "Hard to hear" is what I NEED to hear so maybe I won't be the 57 year old virgin a year from now.


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