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    XcandiemanX is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default new guy from salt lake

    Hey guys I am candieman, new here to the forums and the pua world in general. I am 28 and soon to be divorced. I am tired of my bad luck with women. I am here to regain confidence in myself, learn how to start dating the women I have always wanted and have fun in life again.

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    Default Re: new guy from salt lake

    Hey bro!
    Your choice or hers? About the divorce of course.
    Anyway good luck with life and hope you meet women you want

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    Default Re: new guy from salt lake

    It was Her choice, well she claims I pushed her away, in any event time to move forward.

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    Default Re: new guy from salt lake

    How is your game currently? Do you need a lot of help? Or just need a wing to go out with?

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    Default Re: new guy from salt lake

    I need help for sure, my online game is freggin terrible. I can meet girls at bars but can't keep the convo interesting. When my wife bailed it really hurt my self confidence.

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    I'm no expert and if more elite members want to correct me please do.

    But I found out the the simplest method works the best. Basically to keep the convo going all you have to do is keep it about her until she says something that you actually interested about. If not just let her talk and if she asks you questions just answer them without bragging or dragging out the answers.

    Tip - try to throw in a few things about yourself to not look like stalker/maniac. My friend usually just stares at them while they talk and it's creepy, even for me standing few feet away.

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    I was in a similar situation after a long time in a relationship and I found that practicing in an 'easy' environment where you can't really be slam rejected helped a lot. To start with dont go for HB8+. practice on 6s and 7s. There are a lot of these opportunities during the day. Some examples:

    At the grocery store: I asked a cute girl "are you a Schick girl or a Gillette girl?" and then why? Play along as long as you like, then thank her and eject.
    At the checkout
    Hired Guns
    Baggage carousel (I travel a lot)

    Just practicing talking to strangers for a minute or two really helps when you need it. Like practicing free throws

    Also remember that you're job is essentially to be popular so people notice, so don't forget to also be friendly to all the guy hired guns as well once you've determined where you are going to hangout on a regular basis.

    For you specifically, you might want to try Gracie's, Green Pig or Tavernacle
    Last edited by Skippy; 07-23-2012 at 01:06 PM. Reason: Forgot something

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    Default Re: new guy from salt lake

    Thanks for the input so far guys! Skippy,
    I went to johnnys last weekend and had some luck with girls there with what appeared to be there bfs. But lije I said I couldn't keep the convo interesting.

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    Maybe we need to get you to Vegas for a big week end. Lots of opportunity to practice and you can be whoever you want to be for a night or two. You'll also get some stories to tell. Everyone needs a Vegas story.

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    Default Re: new guy from salt lake

    Quote Originally Posted by Skippy View Post
    Maybe we need to get you to Vegas for a big week end. Lots of opportunity to practice and you can be whoever you want to be for a night or two. You'll also get some stories to tell. Everyone needs a Vegas story.
    Man that would be great if i weren't so broke atm,
    I need an opinion, POF sucks! maybe its me though. I have shot out over 100 emails over the past week and a half and only 5 girls have responded 1 HB6 and the rest were HB2's and 3's just for the practice ya know. Take a look at my profile and be brootal, what do i need to change? Right now my about me section consists of some stuff i directly heard from style and some other stuff i found on this forum i believe. Tell me anything and everything you can think of to invoke more responses. or even better get the HB's to email me.
    I have even used this as an opener (slightly tweaked) from the great style i believe or maybe it was mystery?
    I need your opinion,I don't know you at all so I need an outside perspective. do you think that spells work? I have this friend and this girl has been constantly bugging him and stalking him. She's a friend of my brothers girl. She claims to be a witch of sorts (imo, a wierd stoner hippy that smokes too much pot) anyway long story short she tells my friend that she was casting a love attraction spell on him a couple weeks ago. Yesterday I texted him to see if he wanted to have a drink at the bar. We met up at johnnys on 2nd so and 2nd east and lone behold he is with this girl. They were all over each other it was like watching my brother making out with with a an evil step sister he hated. I asked him wtf dude? He said he had been talking to her over the past week and she is really nice. Weird huh? Coincedence?
    even used the whats 2 qualities you look for in a man, that one gets about a 50% response ratio. ugh i am pulling my hair out lol


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