wow thanks man that whole page is packed with great information from people who seem really great and like they really want to help others. You know the city I live in doesnt have a lot of people like that, the cool people here tend to be condescending and stand offish. I traveled to nyc recently and realized how limiting my environment is because people there were so much nicer and friendly and there was a greater sense of community. I realized that my environment was really the source of my Approach Anxiety. Did you ever have to deal with approach anxiety? And what do you think makes people here want to help others and spread this knowledge rather than just keep it to themselves? Is there any concern that too much of this will get out to too many people, or too much of it will get used on women, and we will run out of material to use because it will be too well known?