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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    wow thanks man that whole page is packed with great information from people who seem really great and like they really want to help others. You know the city I live in doesnt have a lot of people like that, the cool people here tend to be condescending and stand offish. I traveled to nyc recently and realized how limiting my environment is because people there were so much nicer and friendly and there was a greater sense of community. I realized that my environment was really the source of my Approach Anxiety. Did you ever have to deal with approach anxiety? And what do you think makes people here want to help others and spread this knowledge rather than just keep it to themselves? Is there any concern that too much of this will get out to too many people, or too much of it will get used on women, and we will run out of material to use because it will be too well known?

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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    I know for me, the more I help others with their sticking points, the more it also helps my own growth & experience.


    And, whenever I have a question, I know that I've got a bunch of people here, ready to return the favor.


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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    so i guess its just really hard for me to think that direct openers will work, do you use these a lot?

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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    Did you ever have to deal with Approach Anxiety?

    Yeah, but admittedly not to the degree that some guys have. That's why I wrote Three Baby Steps to Beating Severe aa.

    What do you think makes people here want to help others and spread this knowledge rather than just keep it to themselves?

    It's a machine that feeds itself. The most active guys on the site ultimately have good intentions, and that attitude is contagious. It's a good feeling.

    Is there any concern that too much of this will get out to too many people, or too much of it will get used on women, and we will run out of material to use because it is too well known?

    The nice thing about all of the guys in the experts thread is that they focus on internalizing belief over canned/routine material. We also teach that, and it's fine, but will eventually fail you. A majority of girls agree with my teachings. They've visited the site, read my stuff, and wished more guys would be open to it. Women like what I have to say, so regarding my own method I'm not worried at all.

    So I guess it's just really hard for me to think that direct openers will work, do you use these a lot?

    Yes. Women want men, not p*ssies. The hottest ones will appreciate that you got it out right from the get-go. Direct openers are a slap in the face to social norms, and women like violating social norms (secretly .) Not to mention, it's fun, funny, and helps you get the, "No F*cks Were Given On This Day," attitude.
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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    Yea it is a feeling to have a sense of community and have people helping each other out and acting like friends/family. I have always thought so but a lot of people would rather go around acting like hard asses ya know? Anyways its funny you say what you do about canned material because I literally just noticed one expert who was talking about his conversations with women which seemed for the most part to be pretty normal, he obviously wasnt following any scripts or using games or anything. This was confusing at first and I asked him about it but after reading what you wrote I can see that once you have the right attitude and know how to have a conversation you dont have to follow scripts or use canned material. I guess I just have a lot more work to do. I just was walking down the street and there were two hot girls approaching and I was like shit what was I supposed to say to open a girl who was about to pass me on the street? I think the biggest problem with aa is that it makes you clam up so you forget even your favorite openers. And to be honest direct openers after thinking about it seem like they could work if I had the right frame and attitude and everything, but they seem pretty hard, like I'm not so much putting the chick on the spot but myself lol. So what are the three babysteps to dealing with Approach Anxiety? And how do you personaly open someone who is about to pass you on the street or who you have a small window of opportunity to open in a similar sort of situation and you have to just think fast?

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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    You can read my three steps here.

    How would I open them? I'd either claw the girl I wanted or say the first thing that came to mind.

    "Dear God, you're hot. You and I are going to get coffee right now."

    [This next one's from Sasha]

    "What do you think you're doing?!? You can't just go around walking all hot like that! Guys are going to start beating each other up over you when they don't even know you! You seriously need to ugly it down. I don't care what you do; put on some nerd glasses, wear sweat pants higher than your belly button, but do SOMETHING! We need to find you a stick to beat all the guys off with..."
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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    wow thats pretty impressive man. Kudos. And thanks again!


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