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    Default how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    we have all had a hot waitress, cashier, sales associate, secretary/receptionist, etc at a store or business we were at. The windows of opportunity for opening and closing here are oftentimes as little as 30-45 seconds. Sometimes if you have a lot of stuff they are ringing up there is a couple minutes. But it is complicated because they are usually asking business related questions and trying to talk about the sale etc. Now given that you may have the opportunity to be a repeat customer and form rapport that way....the question is how can one try to get a phone number of a woman in this type of setting with this type of time constraint?

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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    Send in Brad Pitt or George Clooney.
    He could get it.



    But seriously, that's a good question.
    It would require accelerated attraction, comfort & rapport. If you had a couple minutes, it could be done. But in under a minute would be pretty tough. At least for me anyway.

    Maybe someone else has some experience in a rapid Number Close like that?


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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    Yes the problem is the time constraint, comfort and rapport are best built over time of course. It will be made easier if you are a repeat customer here. But if you only have a matter of a couple/few minutes, or maybe more if she is a sales associate who is helping you pick out something, vs a cashier just ringing you up. Your going to have to create serious rapport and engage her intellectually with some stimulating conversation while using comfort...and when your time is up then you have to go in for the Number Close...has anyone done this before and have a way they are doing it? I tried it recently but hadnt gotten enough comfort or rapport, so the girl gave me a number but didnt respond to my texts. Lame. These situations are always happening to us though, there has to be a way!!

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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    The closest thing in semi-comparison I managed to do, was get a phone numer after sending an initial contact email.
    It took about 45 seconds to write it....


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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    lol so are you going to tell me how you did this?

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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    You go in with a power frame; a state of mind that she is already attracted to you. With a Mindset like this you won't need to build comfort, especially with such a tight time constraint. Because the window is so small, shock and awe will also up your chances of number closing.

    This is only going to work if you elicit some serious alpha male qualities:

    Pull her aside, keep eye contact, and here's your line:

    "Hey, I know you're busy and I don't want to keep you from your job, but I think you're cute and would like to get to know you better. Give me your number and I'll shoot you a text so you can get back to me after work."
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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    you know I did the whole power frame thing with this one waitress and she gave me her number but was non responsive. I must have not done it right. Maybe my frame didnt seem strong enough. hmm I wonder what I did wrong. Is there any more info you can give me on this technique?

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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    It probably came down to vibing and body language. A power frame needs to be backed up by alpha male characteristics. I'd talk to Virgil on that.
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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    wow, ok, th ank you that makes sense. So who is virgil?

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    Default Re: how to hit on a woman while she is at work

    Virgil is an expert when it comes to being an alpha male. You can read a short bio about him here, or visitor message/private message him here on his profile. Here is his thread on being an alpha male.
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