I would never call myself a PUA. I never sat down working on routines, thinking of clever openers or a really good story to dhv a beautiful girl. I mean how could i, what with school, working, and wasting the rest of my time...who has time to learn to be a PUA. On the other hand i also would have never considered myself an AFC either. Not to say that i am always successful with closing, or that i know what to say to make me desirable. To be honest im not unsuccessful with girls, so because of that i felt like i was doing ok...Until last night.
I was out in the city with this girl who i work with, and let me tell you the vibes were and are there. They have been since we started working together. This girl has been trying to hang out with me and we finally got to. She was psyched, i was psyched, and things were going great. We were laughing, having fun, just sincerely enjoying each others company...But nothing came out of it. Now dont get me wrong, i am happy about last night and really did enjoy myself, but what im not happy about is how i wasn't able to close the deal. I should have been able to make something happen; a kiss, a lot of touching, holding hands even...I can honestly say that last night when i got home, sat in my bed and contemplated whether to sleep or finish myself off, i felt like the true and purest form of an AFC...
WHich brings me here today. Like most of you i discovered the world of PUA through Neil Strauss' "The Game". I read it two years ago and was completely taken back by this whole other world in which i was completely unaware of. I caught onto many of the phrases, openers and routines Neil used through out the book and completely understood the logic between it all. I mean it all made complete sense to me. However i never really sought out the skills to learn this art or really try to hone in on what little bit of game i can use on a beautiful girl. I just thought i can take what i have read, try to use some of it and just sort of figure it out along the way. Never once did i honestly work out routines, or openers, or anything of the sort. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not unsuccessful with girls by any means, but i realized recently that i want to be able to make things work out in my favor with the skills i can learn from all of you to attain the girls i desire.
I very much look forward to being a part of this forum, and learning as much as i can from everyone that is willing to share. And although the skills i have in PUA is beyond minimal, i am psyched just to be here and will help out with as much as i can with whomever needs it.