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    Default Texting Help needed Please

    I followed your Texting guidlines and She was Texting Regular back and forth but then didnt answer last text? I have been Chaseing her for about a Year now and I know Im getting close. We are going to see each other again soon. She is up north working right now. I didnt text her back after she didnt reply to my last text just like you told me. Is this a Control thing on Her Part. How do I know if She is truly interested in going home with me? Or am I just a Friend? Or am I still wasteing my time? I am new to all this but still feel I got Game left in me even at my age! Thanks

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    Default Re: Texting Help needed Please

    Something I've personally has success with in situations like this is, if she doesn't respond & a day or two goes by, then re-open the dialogue.

    But you have to start fresh. It doesn't matter who sent the "last text" either. But when you re-initiate the conversation, start from the basic opener & work it up through gradual escalation.

    Stay away from things like "Hey what's up?" or "Whatcha doing?" or "How are you?" .... and especially "YO!"

    None of those messages are going to get her attention. They're the same crappy texts that every other dipsh1t who has her number, is texting her. You don't want to be categorized in the group of dipsh1ts.

    So, you need to re-open with a text that will stand out & make her want to reply. The BEST types of openers are ones that convey humor & fun. Just make her laugh! That's all you need to do. She WILL respond if you can do that.
    Laughing makes us feel good. And when we feel good, we show appreciation much more freely.

    OR, another option is to trigger her curiosity; something to cause a little confusion & make her wonder what you mean.

    What are some good openers? (BTW- You can search more in the "How To Text A Girl" section of the forums.)

    Here are a couple openers I've used when I haven't chatted with a girl for a couple days or longer:

    "Thanks for sending over that pizza! You rock!!! I owe ya one. " (She's gonna think: "HUH? What's he talking about??") So when she responds because she's clueless, you just say "My bad! I meant to send that to someone else. But you just made my day by saying hello!"

    Usually they'll say, "OH! Hello LOL!" or something like that. If she says "I didn't say hello" OR "I haven't yet" Then you reply.. "I'm just saying it ahead of time".

    Another high success opener:
    "Since it's been a while, I was wondering how many new grey hairs you have.. "

    Or "Hope your thumbs have recovered... If so, holla back! We need to catch up! "

    Or "Hey! I'm at the store & need your help! Cap'n Crunch or Lucky Charms?"

    Basically the idea is to send her something that she wouldn't get from anyone else. It doesn't have to be "true", or even make much sense. You just want to get her attention.


    Here's one I JUST used yesterday to re-open a girl I haven't talked to in about 2 months:
    ME: "I'm gonna need a stick of butter, a midget & some sand-paper. Can u help a brotha out?"

    Her reply came seconds later:"OMG! You always crack me up! What r u up to? "

    Anyway, like I said. If a little extra time has passed, go for the re-initiation text. But make it good!


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    Default Re: Texting Help needed Please

    Hey Thanks Allot I appreciate Your Help ! I will get right on it !


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