Hello gents, my name is Stephan.

So after 7 years in a pretty turbulent relationship, I'm "finally" single again.

The thing is I used to be excellent on picking up girls before. I mean, I probably had the best confidence in the world. There was nothing that could stop me, and I could get whoever I wanted no matter what. Didn't matter if they were in a relationship. I always found a way.
I could walk into a new bar, and suddenly I had girl all over me. And I loved it.

I feel my whole confidence is flushed down the toilet.
I've lost my way around women, and how to approach them.

Have anyone been in the same situation before?
How can a relationship destroy everything you knew about
picking up girls? And how should I start building my confidence up again?

Sincerely

Stephan V