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    Default becoming a PUA is my new hobby!

    I want to be a winner. I have a problem, a big problem. I want to be the center of attention. I want to be an idea of hope, love and unity. I hate being denied. I hate being looked down upon. I want to spread good vibes.

    my story:

    My first girlfriend. I was not into her. but I love the idea of sex. She wasn't my type it was easy talking to her. The problem is I could not talk to the girls that I was really into. They would get me all shy, nervous, and insecure. I lost a lot of chances with a lot of girls in my high school days. Then I met my 2nd girlfriend who was clingy, over protective, and a liar. I stayed with her for 5 years, she would not let me talk to any girls. I have been in a box. While she would spend time with other guys. And now I am here.

    I am happy with my life. I feel free. I am comfortable and always smiling. But my problem is I have become picky and when I see the ones that interest me... they freeze me up. I never got over that fear. And every time I dive in I mess up, they give me the wtf are you doing here, or leave me alone look.

    Its not there fault though... its what I am doing wrong.

    -good vibes

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    Default Re: becoming a PUA is my new hobby!

    Hey, welcome to the club! I just ditched my girlfriend after five years. And i have also become kind of picky...Also the aa's ive been getting are tremedous. I believe it is the first thing to sort out. After having browsed around on the forum, i read in some article that one possibility is to consider AA like an allie, if you cant beat it, join it, and from what ive heard, you CANNOT make AA dissapear.

    But after several nights on the field i have kind of come to my own technique "Here it is, right now, think about it and you miss it." I give myself three seconds to walk up to a chick which is not always possible (I'm a barman in a Irish pub and can't always stroll out of the bar as i want, in that case a simple countdown from three to one, breathe in breathe out, let the AA crawl around my body and kick my arse into gear). I'd go for a simple "Hey, i've never seen you in here before", as an opening, ESPECIALLY if she has been in several nights before, and even more so if we have had eye contact on those previous nights.

    Just dont be afraid of rejection, go for it, ask questions later. Feck the rest...

    Considering I still definitely am a noob in the game, or at least back to square one, any comments are genuinly welcome...

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    Default Re: becoming a PUA is my new hobby!

    GloriousDisease is right. The 3 seconds rule is doing wonders to get rid of aa. This way you don't get to think about "what if it doesn't work?". One thing that also helped me to make this AA disappear is act like I'm the prize. I'm not going there to buy, I'm a seller. You have to think like it's the girl who should be working to qualify to you.

    I'm also very picky when it comes to girls. Thing is, when trying to improve my game, it didn't help at all to only think of approaching the few girls I was really into. So I started to approach more girls, from HB7 to HB10 randomly. The only way of getting better at something is practicing it, right?

    Don't forget: being rejected is far from being the end of the world. As GloriousDisease mentionned before me, don't be afraid of it. Every time I got turned down, I learned something new from it. Besides, it's her loss ;-)


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