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    Exclamation Rules To Game By: Chill Out People!

    I say all this for your own good. I am not trying to be mean or piss people off, but I feel like it needs to be said.


    1. Not everything is a Sh1t Test, so don't automatically assume it is. Believe me when I say they come up way more on this site than in real life. Relax, maintain frame, and you'll be fine.

    2. A Sticking Point is an area in your game where you're constantly running into problems. Transitioning, escalating, kissing, isolating...all these are sticking points. Having one girl that doesn't laugh at your jokes is not. That brings me to...

    3. We cannot have your conversations for you. This is sink or swim gentlemen, and screwing up is one of the best ways to learn. Trust yourself and your game, throw out some lines and even if she doesn't respond positively, you can just laugh it off. If thing's crash and burn, figure out what you did wrong and chalk it up to experience.

    4. We separate the site for a reason. There are categories, subcategories, and sections all spaced out for you to put your posts in. There's no reason to post a question about facebook game in the talking to girls section (for those of you who somehow skipped the front page, we have a section for that). You'll get your question answered a lot faster if you do, so it's in your best interest.

    5. Have some standards. Don't jump into bed with a married woman just cause she falls in your lap. Don't break up a couple just cause you think a guys girlfriend has nice tits. We're men, not animals. Figure out right now what you will and won't do right now, cause lord knows you won't think clearly when all the blood is held up between your legs. Women like a guy with standards. You can be an alpha badass chick-magnet and a gentleman at the same time, guys.

    6. Show some Respect (Part 1). Keep in mind that these are real people you're talking to; women with emotions and dreams and morals and friends and family. Respect them. Don't go around leaving a trail of broken women. Remember the golden rule, people. Leave them better than you found them. Whether that's with a great memory or a fulfilling relationship, make sure they won't regret it when it's over.

    7. Show some Respect (part 2). The experience bar is there for a reason. It's so you can tell who know's what they're talking about. The experts here know their sh!t. These guy's have been around the block a few times. They aren't here to learn anymore, they're here to teach. They want to help you with your problems, so show some gratitude or at least some respect. Game Respects Game. Don't be a douche waving your d1ck at the people trying to help you so you'll look like an alpha, cause it doesn't work.

    8. Don't lose yourself. Guys, we all come into this world AFCs. It takes a lot of changes to become a PUA. Believe me, I know. But don't, under any circumstances, give up who you are. You're goal is to make yourself better, not be a new person with a new personality. You want to be a better person with a better personality. It's a fine line to walk, but it's important. Don't lose touch with who you really are. And don't act like someone else to get laid.

    9. This is not the movie Hitch. If you're here to get the girl of your dreams or win your ex back, I'm sorry but chances are we won't be able to help you. We'll try, but don't hold your breath. I have yet to see anyone get good enough to win over a girl that's already got you nervous and anxious. Personally, I think you should go for broke right now. Reading PU material will only clutter up your head and you'll trip up when you talk to her. If it works, I'll be the first to pat you on the back. If it doesn't (and odds are it won't) then take those feelings you're gonna be left with, all the anger and regret and sadness, and make yourself better so next time you can get your dream girl.

    10. Oneitis is not that bad. You'll hear a lot about Oneitis on this site. People talk about it like it's cooties. It's not that bad. Yes, it's not ideal and yes, thinking a girl is "the one" will make you more nervous and hurt your game. But going out and sleeping with 10 girls is just dumb advice. No matter how good you are, 10 f-closes is going to take a long time. Second, what if you're right? I say, go for broke. If you f@ck up mightily, well, at least you know you tried. Learn from it and go on. But if you get it right...well you may have just won the Game there sir.


    Good luck, gentlemen. Great times await you.
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    Default Re: Rules To Game By: Chill Out People!

    HOW DARE YOU! I am truly offended.

    Lol no I'm teasing.

    This post, I must say, is simply amazing Bandit. It touches on many issues I have seen myself on this forum recently. Such as having standards and seeing being vulnerable with a woman as weakness. She does want to know you think she's special and get mushy gushy.....eventually lol.

    Even with my experience and knowledge I am still learning everyday and its not always from someone I feel is more experienced than I. Again simply amazing. 30 likes!

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    Default Re: Rules To Game By: Chill Out People!

    This is great. Especially some of the latter points. For me just getting into the game a few months ago this is fantastic. No one can game flawlessly in every situation and certainly you are even less likely to game well when your head is cluttered. Practice and be willing to learn and improve on the errors you are guaranteed to make.

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    Default Re: Rules To Game By: Chill Out People!

    Number 8 is golden. Never forget that one, boys! It was definitely a sticking point in my road to become "alpha". Good post, Bandit!

    BTW, number 4... you posted this in "new member introductions" lol

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    Default Re: Rules To Game By: Chill Out People!

    Its an awesome post Bandit! I think this should be Stickied so that New Users actually read these before starting to post in the wrong sections, think of women as an object and use them, change themselves etc(you named everything)..
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Rules To Game By: Chill Out People!

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post

    BTW, number 4... you posted this in "new member introductions" lol
    Haha I know, I know. I had a hell of a time trying to figure out where to post this. I finally decided that I'd put in in the New Member Introductions in hopes that they would read this before posting their questions.

    I'm glad you guys agree with me on this. I was wondering if I was the only one who'd noticed that we were having some of these issues.

    You really think this should be a sticky?
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    Default Re: Rules To Game By: Chill Out People!

    Quote Originally Posted by Bandit View Post
    You really think this should be a sticky?
    Yes, because most new guys will make the opposite of what you typed in, in hopes of getting better and becoming a PUA, which is not really the case..
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    THIS IS SO GOOD

    I say all this for your own good. I am not trying to be mean or piss people off, but I feel like it needs to be said.

    That's cool. I'm going to respond to your stuff with my own snarky sh*t, because that's funny. Lol.

    1. Not everything is a Sh1t Test, so don't automatically assume it is. Believe me when I say they come up way more on this site than in real life. Relax, maintain frame, and you'll be fine.

    God, I love this. "She asked me if I had a dog. Is this a sh*t test? I don't have a dog. What do I say?" You say you don't have a dog, damnit. She asked because she was wondering if you had a dog. That's all. She's not going to walk away saying, "Wow, what a doucher." If you don't.

    ...well, I guess she could, but if she did, that's funny.

    2. A Sticking Point is an area in your game where you're constantly running into problems. Transitioning, escalating, kissing, isolating...all these are sticking points. Having one girl that doesn't laugh at your jokes is not. That brings me to...

    Lol, so true. I hit on one girl. She shut me down. I have a sticking point.

    3. We cannot have your conversations for you. This is sink or swim gentlemen, and screwing up is one of the best ways to learn. Trust yourself and your game, throw out some lines and even if she doesn't respond positively, you can just laugh it off. If thing's crash and burn, figure out what you did wrong and chalk it up to experience.

    F*CKING SEX AWESOMENESS!!!!! Nuff said. Once you hit the streets you're going to have to think on your feet, and if you think you can keep up the facade with online dating she's going to see the real you once you meet up. Inner Game, Gentlemen...mother f*ckers.

    4. We separate the site for a reason. There are categories, subcategories, and sections all spaced out for you to put your posts in. There's no reason to post a question about facebook game in the talking to girls section (for those of you who somehow skipped the front page, we have a section for that). You'll get your question answered a lot faster if you do, so it's in your best interest.

    Lol, @Virgil.

    5. Have some standards. Don't jump into bed with a married woman just cause she falls in your lap. Don't break up a couple just cause you think a guys girlfriend has nice tits. We're men, not animals. Figure out right now what you will and won't do right now, cause lord knows you won't think clearly when all the blood is held up between your legs. Women like a guy with standards. You can be an alpha badass chick-magnet and a gentleman at the same time, guys.

    I think more vets than newbies actually get this one mixed up: There is a fine line between being "alpha" and overcompensating.

    Talking about you d*ck doesn't make it any bigger.

    6. Show some Respect (Part 1). Keep in mind that these are real people you're talking to; women with emotions and dreams and morals and friends and family. Respect them. Don't go around leaving a trail of broken women. Remember the golden rule, people. Leave them better than you found them. Whether that's with a great memory or a fulfilling relationship, make sure they won't regret it when it's over.

    It's true. THEE hardest part in The Game, but undoubtedly the most important.

    7. Show some Respect (part 2). The experience bar is there for a reason. It's so you can tell who know's what they're talking about. The experts here know their sh!t. These guy's have been around the block a few times. They aren't here to learn anymore, they're here to teach. They want to help you with your problems, so show some gratitude or at least some respect. Game Respects Game. Don't be a douche waving your d1ck at the people trying to help you so you'll look like an alpha, cause it doesn't work.

    Lol, I love you. I'll frequently commend a guy on his good work and he'll respond with something like, "Thanks, it's because I'm an expert." or "I know, it's because I'm an ALPHA MALE"

    ...okay?

    I can't speak for everyone else, but I definitely don't want it to go to the other extreme either. As you're about to say, we all start here as chumps. I don't want the reverence of a god. Sometimes I'm flattered and completely blown away by a newbie's respect, but I'm not Adam Lyons. The purpose of The Expert's Thread wasn't to assert our dominance (and we definitely talked about this for a long time before it went live and became a sticky). It would just be naive to refuse to admit that some guys on here are really good at specific areas of game. The goal is to maximize efficiency. As you all know, I hate when newbies don't get the advice they ask for. It's just unacceptable. The 100% success rate may be a myth, but a 100% response rate is entirely fathomable.

    8. Don't lose yourself. Guys, we all come into this world AFCs. It takes a lot of changes to become a PUA. Believe me, I know. But don't, under any circumstances, give up who you are. You're goal is to make yourself better, not be a new person with a new personality. You want to be a better person with a better personality. It's a fine line to walk, but it's important. Don't lose touch with who you really are. And don't act like someone else to get laid.

    Yup.

    9. This is not the movie Hitch. If you're here to get the girl of your dreams or win your ex back, I'm sorry but chances are we won't be able to help you. We'll try, but don't hold your breath. I have yet to see anyone get good enough to win over a girl that's already got you nervous and anxious. Personally, I think you should go for broke right now. Reading PU material will only clutter up your head and you'll trip up when you talk to her. If it works, I'll be the first to pat you on the back. If it doesn't (and odds are it won't) then take those feelings you're gonna be left with, all the anger and regret and sadness, and make yourself better so next time you can get your dream girl.


    Haha, that's the first thing I tell guys and girls alike in person. I'm not Hitch. Though I CAN help you get that one person (and I will), you're going to be back. They all come back. We aren't here to put on band aids. We're here to put in the real work.

    10. Oneitis is not that bad. You'll hear a lot about Oneitis on this site. People talk about it like it's cooties. It's not that bad. Yes, it's not ideal and yes, thinking a girl is "the one" will make you more nervous and hurt your game. But going out and sleeping with 10 girls is just dumb advice. No matter how good you are, 10 f-closes is going to take a long time. Second, what if you're right? I say, go for broke. If you f@ck up mightily, well, at least you know you tried. Learn from it and go on. But if you get it right...well you may have just won the Game there, Sir.

    I agree. You don't have to LITERALLY go out and sleep with a dozen other women. That's not the point. It's the principle behind it. Go meet a dozen other girls just so you know you're not kidding yourself, because I have gone and done just that only to reassure myself that I was right. This girl IS something else.

    Much respect. You're the man, Bandit.
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    Default Re: Rules To Game By: Chill Out People!

    Just registered. Reading this thread (especially Bandit's points 5-10) gives me more motivation to hang around here and see what this place can give to me.

    I'm not that interested in picking up tons of girls just for the sake of it, but rather to get rid of some of my sticking points in order to improve as a person.

    (I acknowledge that I might be forced to do the former to achieve the latter)

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    Default Re: Rules To Game By: Chill Out People!

    Amazing stuff. I love the part about women being people, not objects we can simply get into bed. Not to leave a trail of broken women. Just all around good advice that most of us had to learn the hard way.
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