Hi, I'm Zenix.
I'm an AFC and over the past few weeks I've discovered and have studied PUA techniques etc.
I figure there's only so much I can learn from reading and watching videos and it's time now to go into the field and practice.
I'm usually a pretty quiet person but every weekend I go clubbing, get drunk and become very social. My issue with woman though is an extreme case of Approach Anxiety and the inability to build attraction (I tend to fall into the comfortable friend zone).
Tonight I hope to change all that. I'm going to feel the fear of approach but do it anyway. I'll then try to use what I've learned to build attraction and hopefully close.
I feel openers asking a woman's opinion would work best for me. I was thinking of using this:
"Hey guys, I need a female opinion on this... My friend said I should dye my hair blonde, she said it would suit me better. What do you think?"
And after giving their opinions I could lead into a few funny stories I have about dying my hair in the past and go from there.
Is that a good opener?
I think the hardest thing tonight won't be opening but building attraction. My main goal for now though is to just approach and build my confidence up over time.
I'm excited! Will be interesting to see how it goes. Any advice you may have would be appreciated.