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    Zenix is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Smile AFC Looking For Advice To Enter The Game

    Hi, I'm Zenix.

    I'm an AFC and over the past few weeks I've discovered and have studied PUA techniques etc.

    I figure there's only so much I can learn from reading and watching videos and it's time now to go into the field and practice.

    I'm usually a pretty quiet person but every weekend I go clubbing, get drunk and become very social. My issue with woman though is an extreme case of Approach Anxiety and the inability to build attraction (I tend to fall into the comfortable friend zone).

    Tonight I hope to change all that. I'm going to feel the fear of approach but do it anyway. I'll then try to use what I've learned to build attraction and hopefully close.

    I feel openers asking a woman's opinion would work best for me. I was thinking of using this:

    "Hey guys, I need a female opinion on this... My friend said I should dye my hair blonde, she said it would suit me better. What do you think?"

    And after giving their opinions I could lead into a few funny stories I have about dying my hair in the past and go from there.

    Is that a good opener?

    I think the hardest thing tonight won't be opening but building attraction. My main goal for now though is to just approach and build my confidence up over time.

    I'm excited! Will be interesting to see how it goes. Any advice you may have would be appreciated.

    Thanks.

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    Mystery21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: AFC Looking For Advice To Enter The Game

    That's a good opener, but a piece of advice sure
    When you tell the funny story make sure they find it funny and your not the only one laughing.
    I'm not very tall but when I used an opener like that my story was i dyed my hair blue to end up looking like a some sort of guitar player but ended up looking like a smurf.
    Use things like that
    Good luck and have fun

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    Autismus is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: AFC Looking For Advice To Enter The Game

    Quote Originally Posted by Zenix View Post
    I feel openers asking a woman's opinion would work best for me. I was thinking of using this:

    "Hey guys, I need a female opinion on this... My friend said I should dye my hair blonde, she said it would suit me better. What do you think?"

    And after giving their opinions I could lead into a few funny stories I have about dying my hair in the past and go from there.

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    Hey Zenix, Im gonna tweak this then take it to the field

    You've got the right idea, your own game has gotta be something that fits you naturally. And an opener should lead to further conversation/stacks/routines/gambits.

    I'd suggest changing the frame. Asking her if you'd look good with blonde hair because another female told you to will mark you as nonAlpha. Instead of her opinion on blonde hair ask for her experience WITH blonde hair... assuming she's blonde... or, you know what, even ifshe's not!

    Maybe something like this:

    (If shes blonde)
    "Hey, you're blonde, lets talk. I might be going blonde in a few days - no homo though! - I have a bet with a friend that if she can (whatever under whatever circumstances) before I can (whatever else under whatever circumstances) I dye my hair bleach blonde. Since I may be joining your blondomness soon tell me, how will I be treated by the world?"
    (Here you can stack to about your friend)
    "Shes cool but the type of girl who neg... you know you kinda look like her"

    For non blonde

    ...fark Im drawing a blank... lol anyway have fun with the blondes! Be sure to field report it!
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR


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