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    Mystery21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Building confidence - it's all I am lacking. Please advice.

    The title says it all, I think I should be ranked in medium section but I came back to beginners because I don't have confidence. It's not because of my kind of girl voice or my jaw being back (buck teeth) because my friends teeth is worse than mine and he's dating an Abercrombi and Fitch model. I think it's because I'm short most girls I like are taller than me, and every time I want to approach I'm scared. I'm not usually in the field I just know a lot, when I say a lot I mean I read so many books bought pandoras box read bill Preston's book and the game.

    I'm just scared to approach

    Any advice will be appreciated

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    Default Re: Building confidence?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystery21 View Post
    The title says it all, I think I should be ranked in medium section but I came back to beginners because I don't have confidence. It's not because of my kind of girl voice or my jaw being back (buck teeth) because my friends teeth is worse than mine and he's dating an abercrombi and Fitch model. I think it's because I'm short most girls I like are taller than me, and every time I want to approach I'm scared. Im not usually in the field I just know a lot, when I say a lot I mean I read so many books bought pandora box read bill Preston's book and the game. I'm just scared to approach
    Any advice will be appreciated

    Confidence comes from experience & changing the way you think.
    Don't let your height be an unnecessary hurdle.

    Verne Troyer (aka "Mini Me" from the Austin Powers movies) is only 2' 8" (0.81 m) & he's been with some seriously smoking hot women!

    Even the "best" get Approach Anxiety sometimes.

    And... a possibly note-worthy mention: My last several girlfriends have been taller than I am.



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    Mystery21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Building confidence - it's all I am lacking. Please advice.

    Thanks I guess your right, I'll just have to practice more

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    Default Re: Building confidence - it's all I am lacking. Please advice.

    its all in the mind m8 .. if you for example, think you are ugly, you will look like that, but if you think you are the most attractive guy in the world, you will look attractive and after sometime, you will no longer need to think you are attractive.. because you will automatically be :P.. its the same as the height.. if you think its a problem.. it will be a problem, if you ignore it .. you will have more success
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!


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