I'd like to get the right one for once. And honestly, I don't get the chicks, they usually approach me. I dunno why, but I get super anxious whenever a chick hits on me, but I can usually play it casually enough to where I assume they think I don't care. Humor's my self-defense mechanism, so I usually make light jokes at their expense, followed by a few of my own. I work overnights right now, so I haven't really been able to hit the bar scene in my city yet, but when I do- I'd really prefer not to seem a fish out of water. Just got out of an LTR where I was engaged, but she just fell out of love with me, and that relationship came out of another one, where I was engaged, but then as that relationship was ending- My ex invited the next girl to live with us, and I was tricked into sex with the new girl. Problem is- With pretty much every girl I've had since sophomore year in high school having approached me, I really don't have any game. Also- whenever I get back into the state where I'm even able to handle a real relationship, I know that these girls who approach me eventually get bored, because I get bored- So, I want to be the one who initiates it.
I'm gonna scour the forums, but if anyone who can help sees this- Any tips?