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    Zemini is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default New Here, and I overbooked

    So this world just recently opened up for me. And for the first time i tried all the classic negs, and Kino I could just to see if it works...

    Well it did work and now I have several women who want to meet up this weekend. I never thought they would call me back because in the past that was usually the case. I must of made an impression.

    Problem now is that they want something a little more serious. But after opening up this pandora's box, I want to keep playing !

    So what do I do? Is it normally this stressful? One wants to go to the beach this weekend. Another wants to watch college football on Saturday. The third and probably the hottest one wants to be work out buddies at the gym. Finally a brunette from Seattle wants to make another trip to my city (Portland) to visit. All happening this weekend!

    I have a feeling they all want to be serious, but I don't have the heart to tell them I just want the benefits. Any advice on how to defuse this situation without hurting their feelings?

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    BatMan is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: New Here, and I overbooked

    Just go on the dates and see what happens. You dont have to cut anyone off right now. Explore your options and let the situation unfold until one of them talks about a relationship.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Zemini is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: New Here, and I overbooked

    I just set up three dates. Thankfully it is a three day weekend so I have some more room to work in. Oh dear her comes the anxiety.

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    jtorres2_1 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: New Here, and I overbooked

    Nah bro, take it easy and have fun, that's what its all about. If you have sex with any of them just be honest and tell them they're great but you're not looking for anything serious right now.

    Its called managing expectations.

    Best of luck


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