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    Commander Zion is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Need Help with severe AA

    Hello, i have been reading a lot about this whole PUA-thing and it all looks promising and really cool (the power to "control" females and such) but i only just signed up for this site (see my post count lol). This was because i have very severe Approach Anxiety, but not only to females but to about anyone. Example: I can't even ask a random person (male or female) what time it is, I can't ask someone working at the mall where the vegetables, etc. are and so on. Can someone please help me with this social anxiety please.

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    Default Re: Need Help with severe AA

    look, the easiest approach you can posibly make is:
    1.find someone with a dog
    2.walk up and pet the dog
    3. ask somthing general about the dog ie: what breed is it?, does it mark its territory on firehydrants like my welsh corgy?
    4. you will always get a good first response wether the convo leads anywhere or not
    5. make sure the dog is not a german shepard or other viscous dog! i once got chased by a german shepard and narowly escaped getting bit!
    also you might try the hi! game, just walk past people and smile and wave and say hi! it will help you to not worry about what people think, it will also show you that if you are friendly to other people, they generaly are friendly back to you, or they ignore you, worst case scenario someone might look at you weird lol ;p wich will give you a good laugh because they make some pretty funny faces lol if you stick with it i'd be more than willing to take you under my wing, just get on here regularly and share your experiences for our mutual benefit oh btw welcome to PUA Forums!!!!

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    Commander Zion is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help with severe AA

    Thx, but I don't have "the balls" to do any of the things u told me to do :s

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    Default Re: Need Help with severe AA

    @meteora.. you started out telling him to talk with someone with a dog.. its a difficult task for someone with lots of aa :/
    as for the 'hi' game .. yeah its good, but usually people with AA (speaking from experience), don't want to talk to 100% strangers..
    @OP, anyways what i did, was to say 'morning' or 'bye' or 'thx' to people offering me a service or selling me bullsht.. or ask them the price for their product.. or go to MC donalds :P they ask you,
    'what do you want to order'.. you have to reply, then ask what sauce, and another reply, then ask what drink and again reply :P.. thats good for AA
    this way, you will NEVER get 'rejected' or looked at in weird faces, because you the seller will talk to you back and most probs smile because of customer care .. after sometime doing this, you can try, saying something about the weather - hot, rainy, windy etc etc
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Commander Zion is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help with severe AA

    Well i could start out with that and look where this gets me .

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    Default Re: Need Help with severe AA

    Disregard this. (accidental double post).

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    Default Re: Need Help with severe AA

    I'm still new at this, but one thing I have gotten good at is approaching. And I use to have bad aa.

    My AA was so bad at the beginning, that I would try my best to avoid situations that had me approaching a stranger. I literally did not want to talk to someone if I didn't know them.

    But one day I decided I wanted to get over my AA once and for all. I drove to the shopping center in a neighboring town, and i forced myself to talk to people. I told myself I would not leave until i talked to 15 people. The goal was not to run game, but just approach them and start a conversation. It was very hard for me to do this, but after you force yourself to do the first few, they then become easy.

    Another thing that helped my friend conquer his AA was when he got a flat tire in the parking lot. His jack broke, so he had to borrow one from someone. He was forced to put on a smile, and approach people to ask them if they had a jack that he could borrow. I know this is a unique situation, but I hope I helped by sharing my personal experiences.

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    Default Re: Need Help with severe AA

    Mmmm well when school starts again I have to go outside so i will begin on facing my aa at the same time. Oh and btw zeeman u nl/be?


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