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    Spirit Reckoner is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Veteran, 25 and a Freshman in College.. Need Feed Back

    Ok, So I've been out of the Navy for a while now. I'm going back to school to get my degree except I'm a 25 year old freshman and a lot of the attractive girls are 18 or so.

    I'm not completely familiar with all the PUA acronyms and I have not read a lot of the material.

    I've already made acquaintances with a few girls, one of them is extremely attractive to me. At the beginning of the semester I was scouting all of the girls in my classes but I didn't really plan on making a point to try to corner any of them. I always sit in the front of class, I always communicate with the instructors more than the rest of the class because younger guys are often more introverted or whatever.

    I am alpha in all of my classes, even over the jocks. There is one girl who told me she recognized me from her other classes and explained that I was very social or w/e and already knew my name. I took this as an indicator and talked with her a bit between classes so we are now officially study partners for 2.. maybe 3 classes. I'm trying to play this as subtle as possible, but how will I know when I should I make an attempt to socialize with her outside of the university?

    If she was a few years older, I would probably not have any problems... but because she is just barely 18 and lives with her parents.. I do not know how to work around this... I KNOW that a lot of parents would not want there 18 year old daughter hanging/dating with a guy 7 years older.

    What should I do?

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    Default Re: Veteran, 25 and a Freshman in College.. Need Feed Back

    shes 18 you can do anything. if you are respectful of her and the parents it will be fine. if you are a douche it wont work. just think of her as a girl that is your age stop thinking shes 18
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Veteran, 25 and a Freshman in College.. Need Feed Back

    Hey Spirit,

    I'm in a similar age-situation (23 and just transferred to a new uni). It's actually ridiculously easy once you get the right frame.

    Don't think of yourself as being "a few years behind" all of your classmates, think of yourself as "the most awesome guy in the room". The highest value any of them can talk about is what they did in high school, but you can talk about diverse places around the world and the country (always keep the stories positive) and you can talk about parties, casions, bars and clubs like it's no big deal - and these things will facinate them because it gives younger (18 - 20 yo) girls a taste of their future.

    The best opener you can use in college (in my experience) is to walk up to a table of 1,2,or3 HBs in the food court and say "Hey, I'm new here. Trying to meet people, can I join you?" Here I always get a little rush where I think to myself that I dare them to tell me no, they already have enough friends. Stand confidently and they will 95% if the time say yes.

    Then just tell them about yourself, tell them why you chose this uni, what you're studying - ask them theirs. Then talk more about home and family, mention some hobbies. Talk for a few minutes about why you are there in an awesome way, and soon they'llask "you're not a freshman, are you?" because you present yourself - without bragging or false modesty - is more impressive than any freshman.

    Serving in the Navy is a HUGE dhv, then stack to asking them about what there is to do in town. This will get conversation going and possibly set you up to hang with them later.

    (I like to use the "gimme youre number, so I can ask you what's good next weekend." if I don't have a better Number Close )
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Spirit Reckoner is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Veteran, 25 and a Freshman in College.. Need Feed Back

    Hey guys, thanks for the immediate feed back this is great.

    Yes of course I will treat her with respect, I always do. Autismus, thank you for your input as well.

    Any other feed back for the girl who I've been studying with? We've also been e-mailing each other on a regular basis to give each other feed back with papers for an english comp class. Should I just keep it strictly academic until she feels more comfortable around me?

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    Default Re: Veteran, 25 and a Freshman in College.. Need Feed Back

    well she might of already put you in the friend zone and that is not always bad. hot girls have friends she could introduce you to other attractive girls !
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Veteran, 25 and a Freshman in College.. Need Feed Back

    Well I don't think I'm in the friend zone. I'm good looking, and don't girls usually like older guys?

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    Default Re: Veteran, 25 and a Freshman in College.. Need Feed Back

    im just saying its ok to have some girls that are just friends they have other hot friends
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Veteran, 25 and a Freshman in College.. Need Feed Back

    Oh.. yeah, for sure. I thought you were just trying to be a dick lol..

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    Default Re: Veteran, 25 and a Freshman in College.. Need Feed Back

    lol no im only here to help i would never be a dick to a brother PUA
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Veteran, 25 and a Freshman in College.. Need Feed Back

    As a caveat to the OP, I'm 26 and an Army veteran starting college as a sophomore. I'm able to approach women here just fine, whether it's the cafeteria, hallway, library, etc. I've been able to Number Close pretty well but I've found that sometimes just making a plan to meet later is less intimidating for them.

    My issue is finding the right time to approach. It feels like my cold approaches are too assertive and it makes them uncomfortable. For me it's just natural to talk to anyone but a lot of the boys here seem way more passive. Any advice on how to increase comfort and attraction after an approach?


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