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    Zkab43 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Hey guys,

    New guy here, zkab43. I live in East Tennessee in Johnson City. Its a college town and I am in Grad school. I'm recently single after a great relationship that just didn't work out. I'm just now getting back into the dating game and I am looking for some pointers. Any advice into how to attract women, approach them, and start to date/ have "fun" again.

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    Zkab43

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    Default Re: New to being single

    Start here at the forum, aquire knowledge, test everything you learn on the field, stay determined even after rejection!!! Don't forget to have fun and be quirky! Enjoy yourself dude, its called Game for a reason after all!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: New to being single

    Talk to as many women as you can. Immerse yourself in getting numbers and dating different types of girls. That way you will quickly remember what to do and not to do and you won't be so overly eager. You will be the fresh single guy girls want to chase. You can even use your past relationship to your advantage if it was long ladting and good: 'what's my situation? Well i was dating a girl for a few years - it was really special, but ultimately i am still young and she was not 'the one''. You qualify yourself as a successful partner - a good boyfriend - and she will have to try hard to potentially be 'the one'. Also don't expect to instantly replace your last LTR so take each girl on her own merit.

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    Default Re: New to being single

    Thanks guys, Now I just have to start meeting new people.

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    Default Re: New to being single

    in fact whitedragon, that is exactly how i feel.

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    Default Re: New to being single

    now that you're on this site, trust me, being single is the best thing that ever happened to you
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: New to being single

    So what now? How do you use this site? Im going to a club tonight and I am wanting to try at least one approach...any ideas?

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    Default Re: New to being single

    start looking at aproaching women, natural and forced,isolating women, openers, negs, eye contact, look up alpha male body language, look up reading ioi's, look up types of obstacles and how to deal with them (gay guy, mother hen, cockblock)
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: New to being single

    Get an opener(or a couple) you think will work for you and use it on the set you approach. If the conversation starts to die down give another opener you are able to stack them, one after another, hence the beauty of learning more than one! Use Kino subtley start small move to medium and go hard! Go for whatever close your more comfortable with. Tyrone knows what he is talking about take everything he says into account, I sure as hell am!
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    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: New to being single

    Well, Bars were dead on the usual college night, so met up with some friends at a kegger...ended up being a frat party. So no go on the girl hunt, Frat guys always trump God Damn Independents aka GDIs like myself. Even if i wasnt wearing easter clothes like every frat guy and reppin' the slim jeans, nice plain t and a vest smiling from ear to ear...its a no go for stupid frat parties. So that being said...I plan on going out again tomorrow to work on some openers and jst get comfortable with getting out there and being single again. thanks for the tips I am sure to use them!


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