Hi, this is my first post on this forum. I'm a pretty attractive guy, 24 years old and currently serving in the military in Kansas. I have never been that good with women, every girl I've been with(6.5 and below) was just drawn to me from my looks and pretty much fell in my lap. The women I've wanted to date I haven't been able to because I lack the social skills to generate the attraction. I read "The Game" which is how I stumbled on this site. I have lurked, lurked, and lurked these past few weeks. Read a lot of material, from openers to dhv to flirting to text game. I've attempted going to a mall to get over aa and went out to bars to gauge how I feel talking to women. I am not sure if anything I have done has really helped me so far, so I am taking a step back and starting from square one.
My confusion is where should I start. I am torn between changing my life and way of thinking to be alpha and improving my inner game; or just practicing more approaching building my way into transitioning and so on.
Its good to join this community, and I look forward to any feedback you all have!