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    Santamaria is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Smile AFC starting from scratch! need help knowing where to start!

    Hi, this is my first post on this forum. I'm a pretty attractive guy, 24 years old and currently serving in the military in Kansas. I have never been that good with women, every girl I've been with(6.5 and below) was just drawn to me from my looks and pretty much fell in my lap. The women I've wanted to date I haven't been able to because I lack the social skills to generate the attraction. I read "The Game" which is how I stumbled on this site. I have lurked, lurked, and lurked these past few weeks. Read a lot of material, from openers to dhv to flirting to text game. I've attempted going to a mall to get over aa and went out to bars to gauge how I feel talking to women. I am not sure if anything I have done has really helped me so far, so I am taking a step back and starting from square one.

    My confusion is where should I start. I am torn between changing my life and way of thinking to be alpha and improving my inner game; or just practicing more approaching building my way into transitioning and so on.

    Its good to join this community, and I look forward to any feedback you all have!


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    Default Re: AFC starting from scratch! need help knowing where to start!

    Incorporate all of these lives together, trust me if you keep them apart your holding yourself back. The reason I say this is because you shouldn't just turn off your PUA skills, you have to submerge yourself completely and stay in that Mindset in order to always be practicing and testing your skills don't limit yourself. If these lives become one then you can truly grow exponentially.

    Keep reading open-mindedly absorb as much as you can from the destruction of aa to the F-close learn everything you can! Here is a crucial part: Field Test all of it!!! put an hour or two a day to devote to sarging, do this to see what works for you and what doesn't, dont give up and uphold your resolve.

    Best of Luck and Welcome to the Forum!
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    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    ― Flannery O'Connor

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    Default Re: AFC starting from scratch! need help knowing where to start!

    pua wannabe is right, the most crucial thing in pickup is to gain social experience to reinforce what you have learned from pua, gradualy you will gain an understanding of what works and what doesn't based on your experiences, i recomend starting by dealing with aproach anxiety, my way of doing this is to go to the mall, start on one end and walk into every store and approach one person (preferably a Hired Gun) and ask them a question, if the convo doesn't lead anywhere, just leave the store and go to the next one with your head held high, do this until you get from one end to the other, (you should have visited at least 10 stores and made 1 approach in each for a total of 10 or more approaches) then if you feel you've done good enough, go to the food court and approach the best looking girl you see just to say hi and ask her where the restrooms are. this will help get you used to walking up to strangers and talking to them. once you feel good enough about it try hitting a club on a friday/saturday night, make at least 3 approaches before leaving.
    btw i feel that the book "mystery method" by mystery was far more helpful than "the game" by niel strauss because it actually explains mm in detail


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