Hi Guys.. I been lurking for a few months. About me recently divorced as of May this year. Been focusing on improving myself. I am not in the position to be chasing women at the moment. I am renting from a friend at the moment and don't have sufficient cash to be dating more than 1 woman. Instead I am focused on getting a better job and have my own apartment but improving myself while I do.
Going to the gym for example often and watching my diet. Learning different techniques here and approaching women to see how things go, basically practicing but my focus is to get a better job and stay active doing that.
I am dating one woman at the moment but she has become clingy and enjoyed my summer with her but i need to keep my focus so I have distanced myself and explained my focus. She is Brazilian and the it is great but also she is not the woman for me which I told her many times but she still wants more.
I see it as I have been truthful and I am not seeing other people on the side. I don't have time for it since I also need time to see my kids.
anyway gents your posts have much info and I do appreciate all of it.