Thanks to anyone reading, this is a cool community and i look forward to words of advice and encouragement and maybe a new pal or two. Oh, and maybe a mentor!
I am 27 years old. Ive had girlfriends and ive had plenty of sex. Im not the 40 yr old virgin case. Ive had some success with women, but also some failures. I guess the failure outweigh the successes, or i at least dwell on the failures too much. Most importantly, im not satisfied with my love life. I see women almost everyday that i can grow the balls to talk to. My bar or club game is weak at best, and i just know that there are plenty of women out there that could have a lot of fun with me, and vice versa, but im not sure how to find, or approach them. Ive had too many nights beating myself up over not talking to a girl. A farkin hottie that I met the other night blew me off for the date we had planned and i acted like a fool after, i was farkin down and depressed and thats just stupid. Im not trying to be cocky, but like i say i just know there are plenty of women id love to go out with and would love to go out with me.
I hope this doesnt come off as cocky either, but im about 6'4, im not ugly by any means, i have two uni degrees, my own place, good friends, good family, a decent job and some confidence. I am positive that girls and guys check me out in bars and that i have some status. I know from interactions with people everyday that i can be funny, charming, mysterious, alpha and seductive. I will sometimes have a couple interactions with girls and be flying so high or ill get a rejection or two and feel like total sh1t. I guess the point is I know i have what it takes to be a good, happy PUA, but im just not meeting my potential, i need to learn and practice more, gain more confidence, have more fun and be happier.
Im starting to read some material and watch some as well. There is a lot out there and im finding some decent places to start. Im sure there are plenty of people on this website that can help me out along the way. Id be totally happy to meet new people and maybe even find myself a mentor. I am dedicated to this and im fed up being unhappy with romance. I also have good intentions. Id like to meet new different women and have different experiences with them, and though some of this is sex it is definitely not solely sex. I just want fun, exciting times, and i dont care to take advantage of people. Ive even told girls i have no plans on dating them if i know sex is in our future bc i dont care to purposely or knowingly hurt feelings to get my d1ck wet.
I really think i have a lot to offer here and im very excited to be here. I know some of you players can help so please do. Anyone who reads and replies thanks a lot, ill definitely try and reciprocate. Thats my intro, looking forward to meeting some new people! Thanks,