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    Orin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Crystalizing moment of an AFC

    Hey there everyone I just wanted to say that I am new to this site and the game.

    I am almost a 24 year old virgin from Toronto and I don't have much experience with women. Anyways, I play a game called World of Warcraft. Long story short I liked a woman on there. We texted all the time and I thought began to have feelings for her which is ridiculous but anyways. So I find out that she has been playing me for a chump. The sad part is that she lives in San Fransisco.

    At first I was angry and I'll be honest with you, I was hurt. But after a while of just sitting there the anger turned inwards. Questions began to flood my head. It was almost like there was a voice inside me that was just 100 percent fed up. That voice started throwing questions that I didn't really expect.

    "How the hell are you letting a chick how many miles away play you like that?"

    "What is wrong with you that you can't go out and actually have sex for once? It's not rocket science"

    "Why are you still a virgin? You've already ruled it out as a social construction"

    "Do you want to be a lonely chump for the rest of your life?"

    and many more

    So now I am sitting here and I honestly wanting to change. I am so very desperate to change. This whole aspect of my life is so honestly depressing that sometimes I don't want to get out of bed in the morning. I just started my first year at York University in Toronto. My brothers said that it is like shooting fish in a barrel in University.

    I listened to The Game and it was interesting and insightful. This is the part where I would describe what I look like. But after listening to the book I realize that looks isn't a huge component to the formula. That being said, I dress well. I am well groomed and I am tall. (If any of that matters) I feel like I should work on myself before I really try out at the game. (I mean this in terms of Inner game)

    But I just want to say that I am checking my pride at the door. I really and honestly want help. I don't want to feel this lost, crappy and heartbroken as long as I can avoid it.

    Orin

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    Default Re: Crystalizing moment of an AFC

    You are in a very good spot to get things started. My recommendation is to get your hands on Mystery Method or Magic Bullets. It fleshes out the foundational steps like a cooking recipe. Great way to wrap your head around how things work. Good luck and we are happy to give our opinions on any specific issues you may have on your journey to becoming an expert PUA.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Crystalizing moment of an AFC

    You seem like you're on the right path, use the game and find what material in there matches you'r personality, adapt that then start expanding you're inner circle, start using techniques you wouldnt and eventually you will grow like crazy, alway practice, even if its once a week, just start with one approach, learn body language, hers and you'res. absorb this whole website if you need to, its the best free material you will ever find
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Crystalizing moment of an AFC

    It sounds like this is the pivotal moment for you. Welcome to the forum and to the rest of your life! Good luck and game on!
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Crystalizing moment of an AFC

    Check your PMs. We're going out. York, Seneca, Ryerson, UToronto, whatever.

    We'll hit on some girls.

    If you can't muster up the courage to start conversations, you'll come along with me while I start some conversations. I don't care if you just stand there. I want you to see that being social is WAY more fun than not-being-social.

    Let's go.


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