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    Poor_Richard is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Unlucky and confused new guy looking for help

    Hey everyone. I'm here to tell at least part of my story and maybe get some direction.

    I'm 18, in college, and a virgin. I'm not too great with girls, obviously, and I've noticed that a lot of the other guys around me are being a lot more successful than me and I am not going to waste time not knowing what to do. I've been reading the beginner stuff, but could still use some help.

    My main problem is that in the past my luck has been awful. Just really really terrible. Just about anything that could have gone wrong out of my hands, has. I've had old boyfriends come back and steal girls away, I've had them move away, I've even had them lose a family member and with that lose interest in me.

    The point is that I've been trying, but through some bad breaks I don't know what I'm doing right and what I'm doing wrong. I'm not a bad looking guy, and am actually pretty confident once I can get a girl to fancy me. The problem is that I just don't know how to work the game.

    I'm not trying to make anyone feel sorry for me, I could just use some help.

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    Default Re: Unlucky and confused new guy looking for help

    Do you want to become a pickup artist, or just get a girlfriend? There is a significant difference. Either way, here's more than you'll need:

    Virgil's Newbie Guide

    Bandit's Rules to Game By

    The Expert Thread
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    Poor_Richard is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Unlucky and confused new guy looking for help

    I'm more on the get a girlfriend side, but I wouldn't mind learning from both. Thanks for the links though.

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    Default Re: Unlucky and confused new guy looking for help

    I recommend this a lot - its popular, but its quite good too.
    The Game by Neil Strauss, or Style. Plenty of other material out there, but here's why I'm recommending this one:
    1 - yes, its a pick-up artists guide, but you see both sides of the coin as in the end he has a girl
    2 and more importantly - he has a huge transformation in confidence, style, manner, and social outlook. I don't want to say self-help, but you might find some good stuff in there to boost your confidence and also open up not just women, but also friends and groups making connections that will help you develop yourself and maybe help you find a solid girl.

    Hope to hear about your successes,
    As always gentlemen,
    Zoltan Vvolf


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