Okay I'm new to these forums but this looks like a great place for escalating my game as I go through college and finding the right answers to handle this situation I have. So I'm in my first semester of college and I've been talking to this very cute girl I would say is an 8. We have two classes together back to back. At first I didn't really care about getting to know her( I was standoffish) because I thought she was just "ok". But SHE was the one that really started to escalate things as we have a 45 minute break between our two classes so we started eating together and talking while we wait for our next class. Nothing to read into about that.
But then as we start talking more( Been in a month now) she wanted to know EVERYTHING about me(haven't told her everything) and showing plenty IOIs. The first time she mentions a boyfriend(last week), she says "I just broke up with my boyfriend". Never even asked her this it just comes out of nowhere. So now I can tell she definitely interested in me and I'm also into her. She reminds me of a girl in High school I was good friends with but while we dated other people I always regreted never asking her out. I am not HUNG up on this girl though, so I'm still talking to plenty of others.
Finally this past week I learn that she and her boyfriend are kinda back together. I ask are they or are they not and she says she doesn't know what they are. She also has started talking about him more when she said nothing the prior two weeks we were talking. She hasn't bad mouthed the guy and they've been together 2 years but she did say she wished he spent more time with her. I told her about some stuff I was doing ( a concert) and she says she wants to go to it. I didn't ask her to go, just telling her what I was doing and wasn't going to ask when she has a boyfriend. Anyway her birthday was this past Thursday and these girls in our class( new girlfriends she just met) asked me if I had gotten her anything for her birthday (first time I've spoken to them so she has obviously talked to them about me) which I thought was weird.
This is the first time I've been in this situation so this is why I came here. She is a really cute cool girl. But once again I am NOT hung up on her. I get the feeling she has turned tables on me kind of. She tried really hard to get to know me that we now talk and have fun between classes but based on what those other girls said to me, she may have told them that I'm sooo in to her or something even though she has a boyfriend. Like I'm a puppy dog.
Should I cut her off or distance myself a bit( Which is what i'm pretty sure I should do) even though we only talk between classes( and in class) and she even gave me her number(not going to call her obviously with a boyfriend)? Am I overreacting about those girls in class? And how can lie about having to do something else in that short break between classes without being rude and maybe keeping interest if its there?
Thank you and this site is amazing wish I would have known about it sooner!