I am new to the forum. I have been following along for a long time. I am embarking on an experiment. Well it has already started. I think the friendzone has been all in my head. I am working on this HB10(seriously I am new to this forum but I have lived in several countries I know what I am talking about)she is smart(graduate school student), funny, etc. but obviously not perfect. I am still out trying to game other girls but I am not ready to pass on this one. I don't want to hear a bunch of guys saying move on. I am a persistent stubborn asshole and am going to have this girl. I know it is not easy. I have found very few examples of someone pulling it off but I am going to do it.
So the background. She has been around, she is almost 30 and knows the tricks. We were deep in the friendzone. And I have made every mistake possible. We meet when we were both in a relationship and I was super AFC. We got really close she use to text and call me constantly. I let her cry on my shoulder during some tough times. It was like that for months. I admitted I liked her. I didn't make a physical move on her despite hanging out alone often. Despite all this I will have her. We sort of work together so I will have contact with her for the foreseeable future. She has shown varying levels of interest over the course of months. I am absolutely convinced that I can change this. I am a naturally a dominant aggressive guy. But because of so many factors I was a neutered puppy around her. NO MORE. It is going to be hard because I am fighting against what she is use to but I will not seek her approval. She will need to impress me. From now on she won't walk all over me. She won't set the terms. I will not change my plans just for her. I will physically escalate. Wish me luck!