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    consciousapproach is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default well the starting to a new story

    FINALLY! a place where i can be totally honest about how i interact with women. such a relief, advice from friends didnt work, women advice was only fun to hear but never worked. For me I feel I lost my confidence. I remember pulling girls all middle school and high school. After my breakup with my last gf in 2009 I kinda just lost all my confidence. I know Im attractive to the opposite sex. Im black, long dreads, well dressed, muscian...i could talk about a bunch of qualities I have but I dnt have the confidence to use them to my advantage. GIRLS DONT TAKE ME SERIOUSLY! and its my fault. To hide how non-confident i am I use sarcasm and I just become the guy who just says sweet things but that turns into the friend zone. I know women like me but i dnt know if its the perc i come with..having money, very generous and like going out..etc. I feel if i didnt have these things no one would want me which is silly cause I know I have something to offer..im just too pussy to make the move when they are in my presence and if i am able to get them over my house, i feel so lucky its soo lame. I dont know what needs to be fixed? i want the total makeover. i have what it takes but I just dnt know how to express it. Thanks for reading.

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    consciousapproach is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: well the starting to a new story

    i would also like to say i been on this forum for a couple of hours( as i slowly get tired) and just reading peoples post has instantly giving me a feeling of happiness that ive found a solution. im going to fall asleep with a feeling a lot more faith in the subject of picking up women. thats a feeling i havent felt in a long time so just thought i should share.

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    Default Re: well the starting to a new story

    Well from your post it would seem to me you should ease up on the sarcasm and go for playful teasing, sarcasm can be taken the wrong way.

    Another thing is you have to be willing to pull the trigger! Just remember "you miss 100% of the shots you dont take" at least try!!! Self-confidence needs to be rebuilt might as well do it from square one.

    On last thing is use you current female friends for social proof by doing this you are conveying pre-selection!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
    ― Flannery O'Connor

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    consciousapproach is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: well the starting to a new story

    Quote Originally Posted by pua_wannabe View Post
    Well from your post it would seem to me you should ease up on the sarcasm and go for playful teasing, sarcasm can be taken the wrong way.

    Another thing is you have to be willing to pull the trigger! Just remember "you miss 100% of the shots you dont take" at least try!!! Self-confidence needs to be rebuilt might as well do it from square one.

    On last thing is use you current female friends for social proof by doing this you are conveying pre-selection!
    social proof *pulls out notebook and starts taking notes. thanks for the response . always appreciated


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