FINALLY! a place where i can be totally honest about how i interact with women. such a relief, advice from friends didnt work, women advice was only fun to hear but never worked. For me I feel I lost my confidence. I remember pulling girls all middle school and high school. After my breakup with my last gf in 2009 I kinda just lost all my confidence. I know Im attractive to the opposite sex. Im black, long dreads, well dressed, muscian...i could talk about a bunch of qualities I have but I dnt have the confidence to use them to my advantage. GIRLS DONT TAKE ME SERIOUSLY! and its my fault. To hide how non-confident i am I use sarcasm and I just become the guy who just says sweet things but that turns into the friend zone. I know women like me but i dnt know if its the perc i come with..having money, very generous and like going out..etc. I feel if i didnt have these things no one would want me which is silly cause I know I have something to offer..im just too pussy to make the move when they are in my presence and if i am able to get them over my house, i feel so lucky its soo lame. I dont know what needs to be fixed? i want the total makeover. i have what it takes but I just dnt know how to express it. Thanks for reading.