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  1. #1
    JR2131 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default New to PUA and feel like I'm going backwards

    Hey Guys,

    So just the a quick background about myself. I'm 22 still in school and I've just started to get over a bad break up. Before the relationship my skills weren't great but they were passable, I had slept with 18 girls (I was only attracted to about 4-5, even back then I struggled with women). Since we broke up though my inner game has just been totally destroyed and I just have not been able to talk to girls at all. I was (still am) really sick of it, so this past month I started reading everything I could get my hands on but I just feel like I'm going backwards. Is this normal?

    This is a skill I really want to learn but its just been such a frustrating month. For instance I'm on the first week of the 30 day challenge in Neil Strauss's " Rules of the Game" and I've totally pussied out of the past few days. I'm not looking to become a guru or even a true PUA, I just want to be proficient enough so that I can meet the type of girls I'm actually attracted to.

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    chr1s7ian is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: New to PUA and feel like I'm going backwards

    Just stick with it man. I'm in a similar position to you. Been struggling to get laid for months. It's been a month since I started applying what I'm learning here and I've got a couple numbers, both of which flaked after a while. I finally open a HB7 and HB6 at a bar last Saturday and I ended up getting busy with the 6 that night (my buddy poached the other). After not having a woman even see your junk for months that feels pretty good.

    So stick with, muster the courage, and just do it man.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 10-12-2012 at 08:13 AM.

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    pua_wannabe is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: New to PUA and feel like I'm going backwards

    Its okay the thing is we have to be willing to open our minds to the new ideas PUA offers! You need to make life work for you!

    I know its hard to keep walking forward but think about it walking backwards is nothing but regrets and "what if's" you basically stay in square one or worse go to square zero(nothing happens here, life is wasted away.) Move forward as hard as it may be and your life will be nothing but "O'wells"(you want these) Dont give up guy! Chr1s7ian has the right idea and the proper Mindset(great job dude)!

    The successes will far out weigh the failures no matter how many. Don't wuss out anymore!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
    ― Flannery O'Connor

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    bucks is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: New to PUA and feel like I'm going backwards

    Just stay persistent. It is key. And especially after a bad break it takes time to get back into the swing of things. Granted I have yet to read rules of the game, however the best way to succeed is to demand the best out of yourself and quite often you get it.


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